Is Your Peace Worth More Than Others' Opinions?

As long as you don't pay attention to anyone's movements, don't speculate about anyone's thoughts, don't imagine things that haven't happened, be simpler, blunter, and slower, you will find that you are living very comfortably.

Insensitivity does not mean that you should be completely indifferent to the outside world, but it means that you should cultivate a calm mindset and focus more on perceiving the depth of life rather than the superficiality.

To put it bluntly, in the eyes of outsiders, you are not as important as you think. Life is not easy for everyone. Everyone has different desires and different positions. Don't cultivate yourself in the hearts of others, and don't force others in your heart.

Live well, work well, and don't think too much. Yesterday's sun cannot dry today's clothes, and tomorrow's wind and rain cannot wet you today. Forget what you should forget, let go of what you should let go, let your heart return to zero, and move forward with a smile. So, put away your sensitive tentacles, don’t think randomly, don’t make guesses, everything is just imagination.

You have to understand that what can disturb you is often your own excessive concern, and what can hurt you is often your own inability to let go. I hope that I can live more authentically and honestly, and accept and even like every ups and downs within myself, so that I can like this world more.

I hope I can learn how to deal with and appreciate all kinds of desires, all the ugliness and beauty of human nature. Only by finding the best way to get along with them can you like the world more.

The most charming time of a person is when he doesn't care about anyone and anything around him. Don’t care about other people’s evaluations and views, don’t care whether you have a sense of existence, always have your own rhythm and pace, this is also the source of self-confidence.

The secret to my inner strength is that I always like myself and I have the courage to open my heart to welcome all new changes and ideas. But I will never be anxious because of other people's reactions, nor will I doubt myself because of outside evaluations. I allow myself to be denied. I don't need to agree, nor will I care. Life belongs to everyone's own feelings, not anyone else's opinions.

Even if someone really speaks ill of you, there is nothing to care about, because no matter how the other person sees you, it is because the other person only deserves to see that side.

Don't make things difficult for yourself. Life is only a few decades long. Keep the best mood. Don't envy others' glory, don't sigh about the world's indifference, use a normal mentality to manage the best life.

Thank you for reading!