Is a Woman's Cruelty Inherent?

The benefactor who helped me back then said just one thing that woke me up: "A girl's cruelty isn't outwardly expressed; it's inherent."

Don't always air your innermost feelings, don't rush to confide, and don't constantly try to prove how wronged you are. This only reveals your vulnerability.

When I feel unmotivated, I silently repeat to myself: "I don't care about anything. I don't want to see anyone. I just want to study hard and become stronger." Slowly, you'll find that as your personal growth and perspective expand, you'll truly understand everyone around you. No one has wronged you, and no one is truly wrong. It's just that everyone operates at a different frequency, in a different energy field, making different choices, saying different things, and doing different things.

Understanding this will allow true compassion to grow within you. It's not a "I pity you" attitude, but rather an "I am willing to tolerate and accept, and then treat myself and others with kindness" approach.

Nothing in life lasts forever. When the time comes, those who are meant to grow old will grow old, and those who are meant to leave will leave. Taking care of your health and emotions is half the battle won. For the rest, leave it to fate after you've worked hard. What's meant to come will come, and what's meant to go can't be stopped.

Remember: your character is your best luck, and your mindset is your strongest feng shui. What truly hurts you isn't what others say, but your own excessive concern. What truly drives you out of control isn't external turmoil, but your own inability to let go. If you have inner peace, no one can disturb you.

So, girls, don't be too sensitive or easily influenced. You must be strong; otherwise, the world will tear you apart.

Life will always have its failures and regrets. We often fantasize about having a chance to choose again. But you must know that the roads you haven't traveled aren't your own. The path you're on now is your life. Please cherish your lows. They will help you see human nature and yourself more clearly, and they will force you to learn independence. The pain of the lowest point is meant to build up your strength to bounce back. Even if there's only a tiny glimmer of light peeking through the cracks, hold on to it. You must cultivate the courage to "live against death"—that's your only path to happiness.

Every outstanding person has experienced a period of silence. During that time, you worked hard and gave, but received nothing in return. But that was nourishment, the stepping stone to your upward journey. Years later, looking back, you'll suddenly understand: "It turns out all the pain and grievances I felt back then were actually to get to this perfect position I'm in now."

Women, remember, always invest only in yourself. Love yourself, learn to grow, and then love others gracefully. When you have value, you will naturally find your place. Beauty attracts resources, and intelligence brings confidence. Don't just be good at doing things; be good at judging people and understanding their nature.

No matter what difficulties you face now, I want to tell you: Please don't give up on yourself. You must strive to pull yourself out of this dire situation. Only those who are willing to save themselves can live a good life.

Thank you for reading!