Forging a Life of Self-Reliance?

Never prove yourself to others. Be who you want to be. Never explain yourself to others! Those who understand you will naturally understand. Remember, you live in your own eyes and die in the mouths of others.

If you make a mistake, just correct it and don't spend even a second regretting it.

Develop the habit of not expressing negative emotions and only describing the facts.

Except for very close friends, minimize online chatting and self-analysis. Meet or call when necessary.

Since you have made a choice, you must bear all the consequences.

Only talk about life, health, and interesting things with your parents. No talk of study, work, decisions, and choices.

Just solve the problem and don’t worry about meaningless things. If you lose, admit your defeat. Once you are sure that sticking to something will be beneficial in the long term, just keep persisting.

Don’t get entangled with people who delay things. Be brave enough to leave and clean up what needs to be cleaned up in time.

Learn to forgive yourself, allow yourself to make mistakes, and allow yourself to have emotional fluctuations. Know that you are trying very hard to do well.

Whether you are a boy or a girl, you should try to make your appearance more handsome and beautiful, because appearance is useful in many cases. It is very, very important to keep fit and maintain a good-looking figure. It will make the clothes you wear feel different.

Learn to choose friends. Some people are suitable for saying goodbye.

Spend your energy on yourself and persist day after day to achieve qualitative change, but don't lie to yourself.

It is important to have someone you admire! Because you admire someone very much, the other person will motivate you to move forward, which is really useful.

When you see through the underlying logic, many things become much easier. Investing in your own cognition is the best investment.

Once a person is in a state of hesitation, they will definitely fail! Wanting this and that, being unable to bear giving up this or that, in the end, you lose more than you gain.

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