Break Free from External Validation
Embrace Your Inner Strength and Shine
We once longed for external validation, but ultimately realized that the world is ours and independent of others' opinions.
Life is hectic. Stop worrying about others' judgments and how they might affect your mood and life.
Sensitivity is not a flaw, but your sensitivity and delicacy should be used to discover the love and beauty in the world and to appreciate the light in ordinary things.
Blaming yourself for unnecessary assumptions only punishes you. Life is yours. You should use your energy to please yourself and spend your time on continuous improvement. In the end, you'll find that your life and relationships are slowly improving.
In this life, people will meet many different people. I hope you can always be the protagonist of your own story.
Life is already exhausting. Don't let other people's emotions and comments affect you. You are your longest companion. The most important thing is to learn to love yourself first.
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Emily Chan - Life and love sharing
Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing
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Some great and inspiring reminders. It can be hard to feel like our own hero sometimes. Thanks for sharing.
Be the protagonist of your own Story. Lovely composition.