A Love Letter to Women Who Are Done Apologizing
A Manifesto for Women Who Are Done Shrinking

This is for the woman
who finally deleted "sorry"
from her vocabulary
like an overused emoji—
worn out and meaningless.
This is for the hands
that have held too many oceans
of other people’s tears
while their own storms
went unnamed.
This is for the mouth
that’s bitten back words
like "no" and "enough"
so many times
the taste of blood
became familiar.
This is for the mornings
you wake up and decide:
Today, I will not shrink.
Today, I take up space
like a hurricane
unapologetic in its path.
This is for the nights
you stare at the ceiling
counting regrets like sheep—
then burn them all
in one glorious fuck this
bonfire.
This is for the moment
you realize "selfish"
is just a word
thrown at women
who dare to
breathe
first.
So take up space, darling.
Be the unedited version
of yourself.
The world has had enough
of your silence.
Now—let it choke
on your roar.
Break down of the peom
I.
This is for the "difficult" women.
The ones who say "no"
and watch the world short-circuit -
its gears grinding,
its smile faltering,
its "but you've always said yes before!"
dangling like a broken marionette string.
II.
This is for the quiet quitters
of emotional labor:
The birthday-rememberers turned forgetters,
The calendar-keepers letting dates slip like sand,
The "let's just pick somewhere" women
now answering "I don't care" with a shrug
that tastes like freedom.
III.
This is for the bodies
no longer apologizing for their space:
Hips that don't suck in,
Armpits gone feral,
Stretch marks mapping rebellions
against impossible standards.
IV.
This is for the voice
finding its register below a scream -
Not honeyed, not palatable,
just unvarnished truth
in its work boots,
ready to build new worlds
from the rubble of "shoulds."
V.
Darling, let them call you selfish.
Self-ish.
A whole damn self,
no longer a fragment
waiting for permission
to exist.
Thank you for reading, warrior.
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About the Creator
Vincent Otiri
I'm a passionate writer who crafts engaging and insightful content across various topics. Discover more of my articles and insights on Vocal.Media.


Comments (1)
This poem really hits home. I've seen women held back by these labels. It's time they break free and roar.