Win climbing, lose a life, the loss is not worth the gain

Carnegie in the "human weakness" mentioned: "Many of life's troubles, are derived from our blind climbing with others, and forget to enjoy their own lives."

Climbing is a source of trouble, easy to make a mess of the original good days, which is undoubtedly self-seeking trouble.

There is time to compare, it is better to live a good life.

Only if you live well, is good. Climbing to climbing to go, even if you win is also a loss, this time to win, there is no guarantee that the next time to win, so how can the days be called good?

So, living in the climbing, losing life, is more than worth the loss.

1. unnecessary comparison, is to ask for trouble

It is said that "people than people, angry people."

Obsessed with unnecessary comparison, are undoubtedly looking for their anger suffered.

Even if you win once, you can not win countless times, there will always be a time to lose, if the mindset is not correct, how much will be affected to make irrational things?

When studying, some people do not have much money but are obsessed with buying brand names, and rich classmates compare, think they can afford to buy is better than, but do not know that spending beyond their means, is in advanced consumption, once excessive, the consequences are unimaginable.

Even easy to fall into the abyss of desire, become a slave to money, then want to return to normal life is very difficult.

It is important to know that under the climbing, change not only the mentality, but also the style of action, not only can not bear the blow, but also become resentful of God, resenting the world injustice, but do not know how to reflect on themselves.

Instead of letting yourself live in a tragedy, it is better to spend the climbing mind on learning and trying to improve yourself.

Only if you become better, you can live a better life.

2. Do not compare, live a happier life

When you envy others, others are envying you, each with their point of envy, but in the midst of it, but easy to ignore the happiness within reach.

Most people are not unhappy, but they are unhappy because they are obsessed with "comparison". They think they can find out whether they are happy or not in the comparison, but they do not know that life is their own, and it will be empty in the end.

Instead of obsessing over illusory comparisons, you should learn to be content with what you have, cherish what you have now, and try to live your life well.

When you put down the desire in your heart, no longer obsessed with comparing, you will find that in fact, the present day is quite good, as long as a little more effort, you can live better and better.

Therefore, not to compare, happier.

Live your own life, manage your own life with all your heart, maybe not enough then the top, but at least more than the bottom, as long as you continue to work hard, will eventually become better.

A person lives a good life, see not with others to do a comparison, but their live fast or not happy.

Only when you live well, you are truly happy.

3. Let go of comparison, be a better version of yourself

People live life, each has its way of living.

Instead of envying other people's lives, it is better to live your own life, some people look happy to live, but not necessarily really happy, the inside may also be a mess.

Should be the saying "like people drink water, warm and cold know", they have experienced, only they understand, the next person to see only the surface.

Many times, the seemingly painful life, is not so bitter, only the emotional support deepened the pain, so that into self-loathing.

Doing blind comparisons will only magnify the pain and increase the worry, which will do more harm than good.

It's better to use more snacks on operating yourself, learn to enjoy life, be content with what you have, and be a better version of yourself.

How you live, and others have nothing to do with it, a comparison, but not change the status quo, but will add unnecessary worries, rather than learning hard to come practical.

No matter when, learning will never fail you, seemingly nothing, but in fact will benefit a lot.

Live, do not compare, will be better!