When life is down, you must know silence

01

When the sky is not crossing people, people need to cross themselves.

When you are down and out, it may be a calamity in your life, but it is also a time for God to test us, and the only way to get yourself through this calamity is by yourself.

When people are down and out, it is easiest to see the human heart and reality, but also the easiest to see the state of the world, human feelings, and warmth.

Because when you go to ask for help, you may be met with cold eyes and ridicule, and even unwilling to help you people, you are harsher, talk with thorns is to despise you.

So, when you are down, don't rush to bother others, want to calm down, learn to be silent, learn to keep quiet, don't go around and tell others their difficulties, because even if you say, you may not get help, and can not count on others.

So, when people are down and out, learn to be silent, their ferry, get through, you've won.

02

The old generation often tells us that people poor do not talk, in lowly positions do not advise others.

That is, when people are down and out, you talk to people, say too much to others is useless, because the world simply does not receive empathy for this thing, instead of wasting time with others to complain, why not let yourself be silent, silence is gold, use the time to precipitate themselves, silent efforts, you have the possibility of strong.

Life who want to wind and glory, but the world is unpredictable, our life is also due to encounter unexpected difficulties, resulting in their own up their loss of scenery, and thus become down and out.

But down and out is not forever, as long as we believe in ourselves, have confidence, and slowly go out, by our efforts, will still one day change their down and out state, so that life becomes good.

And down and out, perhaps the most difficult, because there is no money, it is difficult to do anything up again, money is also to rely on their own slowly to earn, the rush can not. Life is to take one step at a time, on the ground to do a good job, even if there is no one to help, we have to hold on, no need to rush, learn to be silent, keep our mind quiet, bravely cross over.

03

When people are down and out, only learn to be silent, to recognize themselves, set themselves right, and then calm down to find a new way out, so that they slowly turn around.

Society is very realistic, when you are beautiful, say a word, everything works, and you are down a hundred mouths, and no one wants to listen to you say.

Therefore, the gentleman should hide the weapon in the body, everything does not reveal the sharpness, when the heart is hidden in the bosom, all the things to lead and not to send.

When people are down and out, they want to silence themselves, concentrate on doing their own thing, or dive into a thing, but first do not tell others, they do a good job, quietly pull out the top, and then stun everyone, at that time, no one dares to look down on you, and even many people come to you to cooperate, want to work with you, because they have seen your strength, so they will approach you.

Life is like this, people are exchanging value, you have value, and naturally, people will take the initiative to find you. And you have no value when you go to others, say more, others are just indifferent back to you.

In this materialistic society, we must be lonely and know how to be silent, and calm, to allow ourselves to turn the tide against the wind.

04

When people are down and out, it is important to know yourself.

When you know self-knowledge, you will be able to know the silence, even in the face of other people's pointing at you, in the face of other people's bad evaluation of you, you do not put it in your heart, just smile, and do not have to argue with others, instead of arguing, rather than fighting.

The more down and out, the more you know how to fight for yourself, others can not count on, then let yourself pay more effort, swallow the aggression, feed the big picture, carry everything, roll up your sleeves to do, the heavens always live up to the people who work hard to get ahead.

Maybe not a year, then two years, five years, ten years, success is not easy to come by, when you rely on your efforts to succeed, your moment of beauty came.

People in this life, seek people not seek their own. Especially when people are poor, it is useless to say too much, it is better to work hard, find the right opportunity, and try to make their turnaround, is the king.

05

Human feelings such as people drinking water, cold and warm.

People are weak, people are poor and short, poor in the downtown area no one asks, rich in the mountains have distant relatives, this is the reality.

If you have no money, no house, no job, no status, even your relatives do not look up to you.

Life's happiness is to rely on their own to fight, in a downward spiral, we must know how to be alone, and learn to be silent.

When you have survived all the difficulties in silence, enrich yourself in silence, turn grief and anger into motivation, do not give up on yourself, talk less, do not just talk to people, do not just disturb people, and keep the light in your heart, try to move forward, optimistic, do not get angry, do not complain, do not retreat, go forward, ride the waves will sometimes, hang the clouds to the sea.