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Understand these 20 rules of Game so you can stand out from these guys and make her yours today:

Understand this 20 rules

By Adnan RasheedPublished 10 months ago 4 min read

Understand these 20 rules of Game so you can stand out from these guys and make her yours today:

If you want to develop a personality that naturally attracts women you need to understand and apply these principles in your life. Most men lose their value by constantly trying to please women whereas the real secret to attraction lies in increasing your own worth. This guide will teach you how to interact with women in a way that makes you stand out and become truly desirable.

1. She’s Not Your Mother So Don’t Seek Sympathy From Her

If you go to a woman with your emotional problems she will see you as weak. Women are naturally drawn to men who can be their rock not those who need emotional support themselves. If you seek sympathy from her she will see you as unfit to lead.

2. Don’t Take Her Tests Personally Play Along Instead

Women often test men in different ways, commonly known as shit-tests. If she tries to tease or challenge you don’t get upset. Instead laugh it off and play along with confidence. This will make her realize that you are not easily shaken and that you are a man with strong character.

3. Learn to Reward and Punish

When she does something you like reward her with attention compliments, or small gestures but don’t overdo it. If she disrespects you or crosses the line punish her by ignoring her. This way, she will value your attention and see it as something she must earn.

4. Your Life’s Mission Should Be More Important Than Women

Men who have a strong purpose in life are naturally more attractive. If your entire focus is on women and not on achieving something meaningful she will not take you seriously.

5. Never Submit to Her Be a Man She Can’t Control

Women respect men who stand their ground and make their own decisions. If you blindly follow her every wish she will see you as weak. Be a leader not a follower.

6. Give Her Less Attention and Compliments

Most men try to win a woman over by constantly showering her with praise. However this often has the opposite effect. If you give her less attention she will start chasing you instead of the other way around.

7. Don’t Always Be Around Her Have Your Own Life

If you are always available she will take your presence for granted. Keep yourself busy with your own interests goals and hobbies. This will make her value your time more.

8. The Only Reason to Text a Woman Is to Set Up a Date

Avoid unnecessary conversations over text. The more you text, the more likely you are to end up in the friend zone. The purpose of texting should only be to arrange a meeting.

9. Improve Your Appearance Looks Matter

Your physical appearance plays a huge role in attraction. Work on

Going to the gym and staying fit

Practicing mewing for better facial structure

Maintaining a skincare routine

Dressing well no matter where you go

10. Treat Her Like a 4/10

If you put her on a pedestal you will appear desperate. Instead treat her like an average person so that you don’t seem needy.

11. Stop Caring About What Women Think of You

If you constantly adjust yourself based on what women think you will lose your uniqueness. Be a man who lives by his own standards.

12. Give Her Emotional Ups and Downs

Women are more attracted to men who make them feel a range of emotions. If you only try to keep her happy all the time she will get bored. Challenge her disagree with her sometimes and make her feel different emotions.

13. If You Can’t Trigger Her Emotions She Will Never Be Yours

Women only stay with men who make them feel something deep inside. If you are too ordinary or predictable she won’t develop strong feelings for you.

14. Never Put Her Above Yourself

If you make her the center of your life she won’t respect you. Keep your priorities in check.

15. If She Rejects You Walk Away Immediately

Never beg or try to convince a woman to like you. If she says no, respect yourself enough to move on.

16. Always Prioritize Your Self Respect

Never lower yourself for anyone. Protect your dignity and recognize your worth.

17. Women Want a Nice Guy with a Ruthless Side

If you are only nice she will see you as weak. But if you have a tough side as well she will find you more attractive. Be kind but also be firm when needed.

18. Treat Her How She Ought to Be Treated, Not How She Wants

Women make decisions based on emotions but as a man, you must lead with logic and strength.

19. If She Shares Her Problems Just Listen Don’t Try to Fix Them

Most men try to immediately solve a woman’s problems but she doesn’t want that. She just wants someone who listens.

20. Be Ready to Live Without Women

If you depend too much on her presence, she will lose interest. Always maintain your independence. If you want women to be naturally drawn to you start applying these principles in your life. The key to attraction is not chasing women but improving yourself so much that they chase you. This guide will set you apart from the average men who constantly seek approval from women. Start following these rules today and transform your life!



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Adnan Rasheed

Author & Creator | Writing News , Science Fiction, and Worldwide Update| Digital Product Designer | Sharing life-changing strategies for success.

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