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Un-pretty

Who told you that you were un-pretty?

By Theresa EvansPublished 5 years ago 3 min read
Un-pretty
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Do you know when a Supernatural being is working things out for your good?

Recently I have been battling some issues with other people that just don’t make sense to me. It is hard sometimes to see when a Supernatural being is working things out for my good because I see the pain and hurt all around me.

Life is too short for us to be saying things out of our mouths to each other that bring pain and hurt. We should be loving and peaceful towards each other, but I see now that most people will not give you the same level of respect that you give them. I use to get upset with these individuals when they do this, but now I look at them and plead silently because they do not know any better. Then again, maybe they do know better they just chose to act the way that they do because they are miserable with themselves. I do not have the time and energy to deal with people like this because they end up sucking all of your positive energy from you, and this is a definite no for me.

We someone decides to verbally attack you for no reason, keep in mind that it is not you that they are attacking. It is your transcendent lifeblood that these individuals are attacking. It took me years to understand this concept, but now that I have gotten the memo just a little bit better, I can operate in my positive life-force more. No one likes to be attacked on any level but the real question is, do you have the mental strength to handle what the other person is giving you? I have learned how to stay silent and not say anything to the person because I also know that all they are looking for is a way to get a rise out of me in a negative way. Saying less is always the best thing when someone is attacking you in a verbal situation.

When others attract you in the mental world by saying things like I don’t respect you or trust you, I realize that I have to make a choice. Do I accept the negative things that you are saying about me or not? The answer to this question is simple for me; NO, I don’t have to accept the nasty and negative things you say about me. The average woman already feels un-pretty just because of the way the world has set things up.

My thoughts:

I wish I could tie you up in my shoes and make you feel un-pretty too. I was told that I was beautiful, but what does that mean to you. Look inside your own mirror, who’s inside there, the one with the long hair, same old me again today. I was so unsure and so uncomfortable, and every time I think I am through, it is because of you. I tried different ways, but it is all the same, but I have myself to blame at the end of the day.

“Maybe I am just tripping, but you can buy your hair if it does not grow, and you can fix your nose if he says so, and you can buy all the make-up that man can make, but if you can’t look inside yourself and find out who you are then you would understand my position and know that you were the one that made me feel un-pretty too. I bet you would feel un-pretty too.” TLC

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Theresa Evans

I am a woman on fire for the love of life and being able to reach one life at a time through my words. If I can reach one then I can teach one the art of healing one's self from the inside out all mentaly

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