The worse a person gets, there is often a reason

In life, almost everyone expects their life to get better and better, to be able to shine in the future and realize their dreams.

But how many people can live the life they want, to draw a successful conclusion to their lives?

I've seen many people who were initially full of enthusiasm and fantasy about a better life in the future, but later they became bored with their work, suffered from loss, and began to stop looking forward to a better life.

The reason why these people can not live the life they want, or even worse, in addition to their conditions and ability to limit, have a common feature: that is, emotional instability.

An emotionally unstable person is ultimately difficult to do what they want to do, and may even be affected by emotions, in the case of loss of control to make some of their own regrettable choices or decisions.

Kazuo Inamori once said: "A person, if even their own emotions can not control, even if you give you the whole world, you will sooner or later ruin everything. You can not become the master of the mind, will be reduced to the slaves of emotions."

I think deeply, that a person who is more emotional than temperament, will certainly not do anything. In other words, the worse a person gets, they often can not escape the following reasons.

A person who is swayed by emotions, often easy to lose their temper

A person, who only learns to control and adjust their mindset, will slowly have a good mood.

As the saying goes, the state of mind determines everything. What kind of mentality do you use to face life, life will give you a kind of answer sheet.

Some people, even if born in general, have no good background, and no high education, but can still go farther and farther on this road of life, life is also better and better.

The reason is that they have a good mindset, in front of the big right and wrong know how to control their emotions, and can face all the misfortunes that happen with a calm attitude.

And those who hold a good hand, but still played badly by themselves, life is worse and worse people, often easy to impulsive, a little thing can affect his emotions.

A person who is emotionally swayed, whether in the relationship or in life is prone to temper, in the long run, will not only make their lives worse but also indirectly hurt the people around them.

You think once or twice a tantrum is nothing, but in fact, bad emotions are like a vicious circle, if you do not control them, will only get worse and worse, so you are constantly out of control.

Often surrounded by bad emotions, life will also gradually negative

John Milton once said, "If a man can control his passions, worries, and fears, then he is better than a king."

As you can see, the good or bad mood of a person is often determined by the changes in his or her state of mind.

A person who is long-term optimistic, no matter what happens can think in a good direction, can cope with the heart, then his emotions will not have too much fluctuation.

But a person who is a long-term grudge, as long as some of the things that make them unhappy or beyond expectations on the cranky, always thinking of shifting responsibility, to avoid the status quo of life, no courage to face everything, his mood will be more and more negative, life will be more and more unsatisfactory.

You know, people live will always be dissatisfied with life, the status quo is not willing to, and a variety of chicken scratch things will always happen around you.

These small things seem to your life will not have much impact, but once the time piled up in the heart, not timely processing, it will make your mood worse and worse, moving with a negative tone and attitude towards the problem, your life will naturally become more and more negative.

To be your own master, rather than being dominated by bad emotions

Someone once asked the following question in a book.

"We all desire a vibrant heart and mind, don't we have the same desire for an emotional state?"

On this question, I'm sure many people would say that in addition to having a healthy body, they naturally want to be emotionally stable and in control of their minds.

Whether life is happy or unhappy, whether the work is smooth or not, whether facing feelings is apprehensive or excited, one can go with the flow, with a calm heart to face.

If you are always impatient, do not consider the consequences before doing anything, and do not care about success or failure, always look of indifferent, your life is bound to be bad.

So, from this moment on, no matter what kind of environment you are in, you should learn to be your own master, not to be dominated by bad emotions, and to face everything in life with a rational mind and a calm heart.