The truth of life

Horses lose their feet on soft and muddy roads; People are easy to wrestle in the situation of sweet words.

One incisive sentence can point out the philosophy of life.

Living in this world, we are always unconsciously disturbed by life, and often get tired of it and suffer from it.

But after reading these 22 sentences, you will find that many troubles lingering in your heart will vanish, and many problems that you have been searching for will be solved easily.

01

A full table of delicious food, you have to have good teeth; Rich, you have to spend your life.

Mo Yan has a famous explanation about the word I

If I lost a apostrophe, I was looking for a word. What is that apostrophe Businessmen say money, politicians say power, stars say fame, soldiers say honor and students say yes ......

Finally, life tells me that it is health and happiness.

In this world, no one will go bankrupt because of keeping in good health, but some people have no money because of losing their health.

In the face of health, fame and fortune, money and power are nothing.

02

The greatest advantage of telling the truth is that you don't have to remember what you said.

There is a saying that is particularly good Not lying is the guarantee of happiness in life.

If you tell a lie once, it means you have to use one lie after another to justify this lie.

Finally, when the snowball of lies gets bigger and bigger, the collapse of a snowflake is an earthquake to you.

When people get along with each other, they really want to change their hearts. If you want to get the hearts of others, you must pay your heart first.

03

Ignorance produces confidence more easily than knowledge.

As the saying goes The ignorant are fearless, but they are deeply afraid of knowing.

Ignorance is not terrible. What is terrible is ignorance without knowing it.

Without knowing it, a person will be blind and confident. As everyone knows, his self-confidence is just as stupid as a frog in a well.

On the contrary, the more knowledge a person has, the more experience he has, and the more humble he will be in life.

There are people outside the world, so at any time, we should be humble, do things modestly, constantly enrich our knowledge reserves, and polish our life experience.

04

We often feel unhappy because we are not pursuing happiness, but being happier than others.

Sakaguchi ango said in the Blue Carpet

Half of the unpleasant things in life come from wanting, and half from wanting.

No one lives a successful life, so everyone thinks others are happier than themselves.

All along, we not only want to be happy, but also want to be happier than others.

In the long run, it is difficult to fill in one's desires, ask for more than one's own, and lose happiness in comparison.

Happiness is an ability. Being happier than others is just a desire. It is better to satisfy yourself than to be happier than others.

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05

If you have little skill, don't be too angry; If you have little ability, don't have too much desire.

As the saying goes

Inferior people, no ability, big temper;

Moderate people, have the ability and temper;

First-class, capable, no temper.

The greater the ability, the smaller the temper; People with little ability often have a big temper.

In fact, his temper is just anger at his incompetence, which not only hurts others but also does nothing.

Some people have little ability but many desires. Not only are they tired, but they often ask others to pay for their desires.

To find a balance, people should stay awake, have great skills and do great things.

06

Most of the time, because you want too little, others simply don't give you anything, and you have nothing.

Zengguang Xianwen said Mo will be easy to get, so just wait and see.

The easier it is to get a thing, the less it will be cherished; The more a person wants nothing, the less others will give it to you.

What you want won't take the initiative to run into the bowl, and you can't change others' attention with humility.

Time doesn't wait for you, feelings don't wait for you, and success doesn't wait for you. If you don't want to live with injustice, take action and take the initiative to ask for it.

07

People who are hated have no pain, and people who hate people are black and blue.

When you think about it, millions of barriers open.

If a person has planted the seeds of hatred in his heart, then hatred will take root and sprout in his heart, and grow cancer.

Many times, those who are hated are at ease, but those who hate others are bleeding;

Those who are hated have no remorse at all, but those who hate others are like ten thousand arrows piercing their hearts.

Instead of letting the fog of hatred cover your eyes, learn to let go of the past, eliminate hatred, and let your heart relax.

08

You must have a home, a leader, and a mother.

Home is always the gentlest place in a person's heart. Without the protection of the family, even if you do much work outside and care for many people, your heart will only wander around like duckweed.

Mom is here, you will always be a child, sheltered by her; Mother's absence is like having no home and being alone.

A person, who travels thousands of miles, must have a conversion to his heart; To lead the people, we must also have a home.

Cherish your home and love your mother.

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09

People can't bow their noble heads, except when picking up money.

Degang Guo once said

It is difficult to climb the sky, and it is even harder to ask for help;

Huang Lian is bitter, no money is more bitter;

Rich man, no money man is difficult.

Everyone has their own face and dignity, and they don't want to be looked down upon or despised, but this is the case in the adult world. In order to live and make money, we often have to bow our heads.

Because with money, we can guarantee the life of our loved ones, and with money, we can get a moment's peace of mind.

Ten

It's a brave man to dig in the furrow, and a fool to count money in the hospital bed.

No matter how luxurious the ward is, the pain of a sick person can't be eliminated with money, but a healthy person, even if he eats in the soil, often has the joy of struggle in his heart.

Compared with the rich who are sick in bed, people who support themselves on their own are more commendable.

Ding Mingyue once said To have health is not to have everything, but to lose health is to lose everything.

It would be foolish to count money when you are sick in bed one day.

Eleven

Ears are too light, which only makes the heart heavy.

I have heard such a saying If you care too much about other people's opinions, then your life will become a pair of shorts, and you have to follow what others fart.

In this world, there are thousands of people, and it is difficult for everyone to adjust. If you care about others blindly, you will often get stuck in tangled troubles.

Opinions belong to others, but life is your own. Instead of letting other people's words disturb your own life, ask your heart and find your truest thoughts.

Twelve

When you are alive, remember not to do two things interfere with other people's lives with your own mouth, and think about your own life with other people's brains.

Shakespeare once said

Listen to the opinions of others, but keep your own judgment.

Just like there are no two identical leaves in the world, everyone has their own unique views. Don't question other people's lives easily, but don't let other people's opinions influence your own life.

In other people's world, we don't have to intervene; Don't rely on others to grasp your own happiness.

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Thirteen

People who turn back frequently can't walk far.

In life, there are always too many things that have passed away, and those who have missed it attract us to look back frequently and regret;

But later, we came to understand that those who stopped to look back and struggled at that time not only made no sense, but also stumbled their own steps forward.

In the Spirited Away, the white dragon said to Chihiro

I can only send you here. You have to go by yourself and don't look back.

You can look back on the road you have traveled, but you can't go back; Those who miss can think back, but let go.

In this way, life can move forward.

Fourteen

Those who pursue wealth crazily will eventually be owned by wealth.

Romain rolland said.

Money can bring happiness to those who know how to be content, but it is the root of all evil to greedy people.

A gentleman makes money in a right way.

However, if a person's heart is occupied by the greedy devil, and he goes beyond the limit to grab his own wealth indefinitely, he will lose his way in the crazy pursuit and be conquered by wealth sooner or later.

Fifteen

Things on the street, one thing is one thing; Family affairs, one thing involves eight things.

Family affairs is a game between sensibility and rationality, a small matter, which often evokes countless happy memories, but can also uncover scars that have healed for a long time.

Outside things, morality and law can be solved, but family things can only be reconciled by love. If you cling to one thing, it will hurt your family's heart.

Home has always been synonymous with love. Never let it lower the temperature with blunt truth.

Sixteen

Don't always ask when pain comes Why is it me Because when happiness comes, you never ask this question.

Zhou Guoping said.

People can't control their own destiny, but they can control their attitude towards destiny and calmly bear the inevitable encounter that falls on their heads.

Bitter or sweet, sad or happy, good or bad are all gifts of fate.

A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. In many cases, the seemingly lost is also a kind of gain, and the seemingly low valley is a stepping stone for you to take off.

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Seventeen

Once you have the mind to save money, you have no energy to cultivate the courage to earn money.

In life, people who have been saving money can not become rich people; But those who try to make money are well off.

Both of them are very important, but if a person wants to save money blindly, he will lose a lot of courage to make money.

Take care of the deposit in your hand, it will only become less and less. If you want to be rich, you should broaden your horizons and enlarge your courage.

Make money with courage, dare to open up, life will find more opportunities to glow.

Eighteen

The harm of being angular is that it is very convenient for others to chew on you.

It is very easy to offend people to be tactless and to speak directly.

As the saying goes Mu Xiu Yu Lin, the wind will destroy it; Heap out of the shore, the flow will be turbulent; If you are higher than people, you will not be.

A person, who is strong everywhere and too arrogant, will suffer the consequences sooner or later.

It is the best way to protect yourself by keeping a low profile, not being sharp-edged, and not being angry.

Nineteen

Respect a gentleman to show virtue, but fear of villains is not incompetence.

Voltaire once said

What makes people tired is not the distant mountains, but a grain of sand in the shoes.

Although the sand is small, it will hinder your forward steps. Although the villain has no virtue, it will affect your normal life.

If you meet a villain, you'd rather stay at a respectful distance from sb than pester him. Otherwise, he will only make you lose your dignity and dignity, and even stop your life.

Twenty

People are everywhere in the world, and people who are together for a lifetime are hard to find.

We will always meet a lot of people in our life, but some of them have only met us once, and they will always break up halfway.

If you want to find someone who will be with you for the rest of your life, you need a great fate, and you need to try your best to find them with your heart and sincerity.

Easy to seek priceless treasure, it is rare to have a lover.

True feelings are hard to find, do and cherish.

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Twenty-one

Always remember, don't raise your head too high or too low, or your hat will fall off.

Caigen Tan said

A gentleman must be smart and talented, and he will have the power to shoulder his shoulders.

A person's hat will fall off regardless of bowing his head or raising his head. If he wants to win the respect of others, he must learn to be humble.

Don't be condescending and overbearing, and don't bow and bend. This is the correct attitude towards life.