Struggle Made Me Stronger

Introduction :

We whisper "what doesn't kill you..." but rarely talk about the shattering moments that make you believe it will. This isn't just another story of hardship overcome; it's the true, unfiltered journey through the suffocating dark of pain, the desperate scramble of survival, and the unexpected, hard-won light where meaning emerges from the wreckage.

If you've ever felt broken by your struggles, wondering if strength was even possible, walk with me. This is how the fire that nearly consumed me forged an unbreakable resilience I never knew I possessed.

Life and Struggle — A Reflection

As we say in Pashto, “Without struggle, there is no comfort.”

Think about it—how much a medical student struggles before becoming a doctor. Even a simple gardener puts great effort into nurturing a small plant: watering it, feeding it, protecting it—hoping one day it will bear fruit.

Struggle is just like that. It first brings pain, then gives results.

As wise people say, “After the darkest nights always comes the dawn.”

📖 Islamic Perspective on Struggle

In Islam, struggle is not meaningless suffering—it’s a sacred test of the heart.

When pain weighs you down, loneliness chills your spirit, or hardship shatters your plans, remember:

“Allah does not burden a soul beyond what it can bear.” (Quran 2:286)

Your tears, your exhaustion, your silent prayers—every trial is an invitation to turn to Him, the Source of all strength. This world is a place of temporary tests, not eternal punishment. Your struggle is a purification, burning away weakness to reveal the gold of your faith.

Like the Prophet (ﷺ) and the believers before you, you are being shaped through patience (sabr) and trust (tawakkul). Hold fast, knowing Allah is with those who persevere.

We whisper “Allah doesn’t burden a soul beyond its capacity,” but in the shattering moments—when pain feels suffocating, loneliness bites deep, and despair whispers that this is too much—it’s hard to believe.

This isn’t just enduring hardship; it’s the true, unfiltered journey through the crushing weight of trial (balaa), the desperate cries of “Ya Rabb!” and the deep realization that meaning emerges from the wreckage.

If you’ve ever questioned your strength and your faith, know this:

The fire that nearly consumed me became the crucible where Allah forged a rock-solid iman (faith) and a resilience anchored in Him—proving that with every hardship comes ease. (Quran 94:5)

Real Story – From Rejection to Riches

Someone once shared a story with me.

He said, “We were extremely poor. I was already married at the time. One day, my wife insisted that I take her to visit her father's house. I gave in, and we went.”

“When we reached her family home, we were served tea and bread. Later, I told my wife I was feeling very sleepy and asked her to bring me a blanket. She went to get one, and chose a beautiful new blanket. But her father stopped her and said, ‘Don't give him that one—take it back. He doesn't deserve it.’

I was sent outside into the cold without even a blanket. That night, I made a promise to myself: I will struggle and work hard until I build a life where no one ever disrespects me like this again.”

“That was the turning point. Today, I am wealthy and respected—but it all started with that one night of humiliation.”

Final Message to the New Generation

Try to build your own career.

Think about it: when we eat food, it doesn’t go into our mouths by itself. We reach out, take it with our hands, chew it, and then it gives us energy. In the same way, life isn't easy the way you may think.

You will need to struggle.

You will need time, patience, and effort before achieving your goals.

So my dear readers, whatever work you choose to do, do it with your full heart.

Put your mind, energy, and all your strength into it, and push yourself toward your goal.

May Allah guide you and bless your journey.

Written by Akhtar Sahil

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