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Overcoming Doubt

Steps Toward Self-Belief

By Kingsley EgekePublished about a year ago 3 min read
Overcoming Doubt
Photo by Georgia Mashford on Unsplash

Maya had always been a confident woman. She excelled at her job, maintained strong friendships, and even found time to volunteer at a local shelter. But when it came to matters of the heart, doubt crept in like a shadow, darkening her confidence.

It all started when she met Alex. He was everything she had ever wanted in a partner—kind, intelligent, and deeply caring. Their connection was instant, and soon they were spending nearly every day together. Yet, as their relationship grew stronger, so did Maya's doubt.

She began to question everything: Did Alex really love her? Was she good enough for him? Could she trust him with her heart? These thoughts gnawed at her, turning small moments of joy into spirals of anxiety.

One evening, after a particularly long day at work, Maya sat on her couch, scrolling through old photos on her phone. She stopped at a picture of her and Alex, taken just a few weeks ago at the park. They looked so happy, so in love. But instead of bringing her peace, the image only intensified her doubts.

"What if this doesn't last?" she thought. "What if I'm just fooling myself?"

Maya decided she needed advice. She called her best friend, Emma, who had known her since college. Emma listened patiently as Maya poured out her fears.

"Do you remember when you first started your job?" Emma asked after a long pause.

Maya nodded, though Emma couldn't see her. "Yeah, I was terrified. I kept thinking I'd mess up, that they'd realize they made a mistake hiring me."

"And did you mess up?" Emma pressed.

"Not really. I mean, I had a few hiccups, but I learned and got better."

"And now?" Emma's voice was soft but firm. "Now you're one of the best in your field. You trusted yourself, learned from your experiences, and overcame those doubts."

Maya sighed. "But this feels different, Emma. This is about love, not work."

"Is it, though?" Emma countered. "Doubt is doubt, whether it's about your job or your relationship. The question is, are you going to let it control you, or are you going to face it head-on?"

Maya pondered Emma's words long after they hung up. She knew her friend was right—she had faced doubt before and emerged stronger. But how could she do the same with her relationship?

The next weekend, Maya suggested they go on a hike, something they both loved. As they climbed the winding trails, Maya felt the weight of her doubts pressing on her chest. When they reached the top, she knew it was time.

"Alex," she began, her voice trembling slightly, "can I talk to you about something?"

"Of course," he replied, turning to her with concern.

Maya took a deep breath. "I've been struggling with doubts about us. Not because of anything you've done, but because I keep questioning myself. I’m scared that I’m not enough, that this might not last."

Alex listened without interrupting, his eyes never leaving hers.

"Maya," he said after a moment, "I understand how you feel. We all have doubts. But I want you to know that I’m here for the long haul. I love you, and I'm willing to work through anything with you."

Tears welled up in Maya's eyes, but they were tears of relief. For the first time in weeks, the heavy weight of doubt began to lift. She realized that facing her fears head-on, just as Emma had suggested, was the first step toward overcoming them.

As they descended the mountain, hand in hand, Maya felt a sense of peace she

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