
When I was younger I was taught that a boy would make my life complete. I was never taught to love myself, so that others could love me back. The confidence you protray will atrract the right people, someone once told me. I tried it and ever since then I have had great happiness. Happiness that I never thought was possible. Appriciating the little things in life is what got me here. I did not wish for riches or opulance. I wished for a life with someone to grow old with, to share experiences with, to grow with and to have children with. The key is to appriciate what you have and strive for more, and if you can't, or don't want to strive for more, then be grateful for what you have in this life, be humble and appriciate any life on this planet wheather it be a cockroach or a dog. Every life counts and we need to do better.
You've been through so many relationships. You find love and you're happy, but then the heartbreak comes. You think you'll never find it, but you feel as if you deserve it. I hope you love yourself first, you need to. In order to find true happiness you need to. Finding happiness within yourself attracts the best kind of love. Someone who will love you for who you are and not who you're pretending to be to yourself. They will see right through you. When you find it you will know the other loves don't even compare. The ones you thought you couldn't live without. They'll be forgotten soon. When you actually feel it you'll feel like you're in a dream, not some half assed relationship where you feel like the other doesn't love the same, or as much. You'll feel it and you'll feel like your world is complete. You will find it with this person. After you find it within yourself the rest will follow suit. This person is you and I hope you find it. Do whatever you can to find it within yourself and you will find actual love with a person when you least expect it because they will see the love you bring forth. You love yourself, you can love well. No low love anymore for you.
Love the earth and what is has given you. Appriciate life and the fact that you can still walk this planet. Appriciate every little thing it gives you and you will understand what is important. If you look inside yourself you will find things you could never imagine that could make you happy. You need to do this, so that you can live a happy life and move forward. Do whatever you can to get this feeling. Therapy, Yoga, meditation, music, your pets, your family, the love you have already with your parnter. They will see a difference in the way you live and appriciate life, it is very precious and some are not so lucky and do not get to live their life anymore, so live for them. Anyone you know that has passed, live for them. Don't waste this short life. Find happiness in the little things. Strive to be better, but don't strive for opulance and riches. Strive for love and happiness. You will appriciate your life more when youre old and grey. Life is about living and sharing it with the people you love, when it is not shared it's lonely and regretful. so please love yourself.
Only love is not all you need in this world though. Counting on another person to love you will not bring your happiness forward. You can only do that yourself. I'm telling you that the one person in this world that can make you happy and knows what you want is yourself. Don't reject love, but be careful and choose the right suit for you. Don't settle for less than you. Love yourself and others and the rest will come naturally.


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