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By Justine ValendezPublished 3 years ago 16 min read
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with great power comes great

responsibility

my content existed because I tried my

very hardest to be an absolute not a

realist especially with uncomfortable

truths I was pointing out that very

uncomfortable is that a truth it's an

uncomfortable truth in many parts of the

world it's not a truth that I'm happy

about I don't want to be seen as a

negative influence in the world I know

that there's a whole bunch of men I get

thousands of emails a week from men

whose lives I've saved I get thousands

of emails a week from men who are on the

verge of suicide and I've saved their

lives

I believe in protecting and providing

I've been misunderstood I don't want

anybody to be offended by anything I say

I want to be a positive force in the

world I don't want anybody to hear what

I say and make them feel bad about

themselves I want all people to live

righteous and good whether they're male

or female I think righteous is living

true to your heart and knowing that

you're doing good by people not snaking

anybody not lying to anybody I know I

live a very righteous life the

government's not capable of helping the

poor and this is why it's so important

as a person you take personal

responsibility and understand you're

living in a world where the Matrix can

be cracked you can make a bunch of money

but you need to take responsibility and

do it I refuse to accept that there are

people out there who cannot become happy

contented individuals I refuse to accept

we live in a world where God has created

people who no matter how hard they work

and how good their life becomes can't be

happy I don't accept that I accept that

the universe is a very giving place and

that God loves all of us and if you try

your best and you work hard you can

become a better person I'm telling the

younger generation that if they don't

get up and work hard and make sure that

they're important that the world's not

going to get bit about them 99 of my

content was aimed at man telling the

truth saying that as a man you're born

with no inherent value you have to

become important you have to go through

some pain or go through some suffering

to make people care about you otherwise

you're not going to matter as a dude if

you walk into the party and you've put

no effort into your life nobody nobody

about you and every man out here knows

and one of the great things about the

masculine journey and masculinity is

that we've all lived a semi-similar

story it's kind of cool like we've all

been the teenager gets heartbroken we've

all been unimportant we've all like

worked hard and then started to get some

clout and then we've all kind of lived

the same kind of Journey so I say to

everybody out there yeah if you don't

follow that path and follow that journey

in one way or another get to the top

whether it's fighting whether it's

comedy whether it's musician whatever it

is

if you're just going to stay somewhere

near the bottom and then at the age of

44 you know email me saying I'm

depressed well of course you're

depressed Loser yeah but that was your

choice because you

to build yourself as a man and if you

decide not to build yourself then then

your life's gonna suck

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my main message is to resist a slave

mind uh to understand that every single

thing you're being told has an agenda

behind it where you would be told

otherwise to examine every strongly held

belief you have and try and identify

where it comes from and why you have it

I sit and argue with people I discuss

things with people and they so fervently

believe a point and I say why do you

believe that so much like do you have

personal experience no but I saw the

news the news told you X and now you are

desperate you will sit here for hours

arguing that point

a lot of people are completely empty

vessels ready to be programmed and I try

and tell people listen to just stop for

a second and understand that

the things they're telling you to

believe are not necessarily for your

benefit

the people who make the rules don't make

the rules for the benefit of everybody

they make the rules for the benefit of

the people who make the rules of the

game so um telling people to resist to

slave mind and just be critically

critical thinkers keep their brain open

pay attention to things be perspicacious

that's the general theme and it doesn't

matter whether you're left right liberal

man woman Etc just think for yourself

that's the general message I believe men

and women are a beautiful Union I think

we're slightly different but when we

work together we're the most powerful

force in the world and I certainly

believe that men and women when they

work together is the most beautiful

force on the planet so of course I

believe in men and women of course I

believe in love of course I believe in

marriage of course I believe in family I

believe in marriage in the traditional

sense I believe a man has a duty to

stand up and be a real man I believe

that the problem with the world today

that we are facing is that not enough

men are sticking to the age-old ways of

masculinity I believe that me standing

up and saying a man must protect the

woman and provide for her so he needs to

make sure that she's safe he needs a

degree of authority I believe women are

sovereign individuals and they can make

any choice they so desire I think that

it's important that we remember that a

man has a duty I think I certainly in my

relationship have a financial

responsibility to provide for my woman

my woman would never have to work unless

she wanted to because I'm the kind of

person who works hard enough and I'll

make another point that needs to be said

the number of women who have stood up

and stuck up for me is ignored thousands

of women are making videos saying I've

been entertain such a nice guy I wish I

had a man like Andrew Tate who felt

responsible to protect and provide for

me you know what I I do belong to my

husband that's why I married him and I

love him we ignore the thousands of

women who stood up and prepared and and

stood by me and said everything I said

is true this is that there's a large

contingent of men who still want to make

money go to the gym be strong drive a

fast car be traditionally masculine and

don't want to be shamed for that

I believe that feeling depressed is real

I don't believe depression as a clinical

disease is real enough I think PTSD is

very real I've unfortunately I have some

friends who suffer from that and I know

that feeling depressed is real I believe

that the number one power you have

against these things are taking trying

to take control of your own mind and

affecting your own life I believe that

it's not healthy to hand over all your

power and believe that depression is an

outside disease that you can't affect I

know that when I've had difficult

periods in my life and also many of my

friends like I've said suffer from PTSD

and been through terrible things I've

lived a very difficult life and I know

people who have that the things that

made them feel better is when they woke

up and said you know what I'm not going

to allow this to damage me anymore I'm

going to take responsibility I'm going

to get up and I'm going to fight this as

hard as I can

if someone comes to me and says I'm

clinically depressed or I feel very very

sad I would say the first thing you need

to do is stop accepting the identity of

a clinically depressed person stop

accepting you have no control over this

and what you need to do is stop

identifying that way and let's work

together to try and fight against a lot

of people who are clinically depressed

are suffering with something in their

life and if you fix the problem in their

life perhaps they won't feel depressed

the thousands of people who have emailed

me saying my doctor told me I was

clinically depressed and it's a disease

that I have got in my brain and I can't

be fixed and I started listening to you

and I realized that that's not the case

and I can fix my own life and you're the

only person who has ever helped me I

believe feeling depressed is real I do

not believe it's a disease that you

catch from the sky and you cannot affect

I believe that no matter what happens I

believe you have control of your own

mind and you can fight against it I

believe if you change your circumstances

in your life you may feel different I'll

give you a quick example I had a guy who

emailed me saying it was clinically

depressed and was going to kill himself

I obviously am not a psychiatrist I'm

not a doctor I told him because I reply

to my emails I said have you been to a

psychiatrist he said yes I'm clinically

depressed I've been on these pills this

amount of time I'm on antidepressants

doesn't work I said I don't know what to

say to besides this and he said he lost

his girlfriend that's why I became

clinically depressed I said listen go to

the gym get a six-pack first once you've

got a six-pack email me again

still feel like killing yourself I don't

know what else to say to you but I'd say

strong body is a strong mind GO train

he went he starts sending me progress

pictures emailing me him getting better

better shape and eventually got six-pack

he's not a professional bodybuilder and

he said I can't believe I was

considering that I feel so much better

Etc the doctor was telling him he was

clinically depressed and couldn't cure

it he started taking control of his own

life and now he felt better that if

somebody has depression of any kind

whether it's clinical whether it exists

or not whether they feel depressed or

not whatever they're taking control of

their life taking personal

responsibility and working hard is

always going to be the positive best

thing they can possibly do for their

life going forward

of course money can't buy happiness I

agree but money is the third most

important thing in the world first is

your relation versus your health because

you have nothing you're going to die

second is your relationships because you

need love and family that matters the

most but money can buy everything else

so money's the third most important

thing the average people come to me and

say what do I do I'm just the average

guy and my only answer is stop being the

average guy

it's my only answer you can't just be

the average guy anymore the I the idea

from the 1950s that you can just be the

normal average law-abiding hard-working

Citizen and you'll have a good life is

gone any man out here who goes I'm just

going to work hard do my bit and obey

the laws and I'll have a good life no

you won't no you will not just doing

your job is never going to make you rich

because you're just gonna be taxed into

infinity and you're gonna stay broke so

just obeying laws and doing your job now

has set you up for to be a peon and a

slave for attorney you have to get

yourself in a position where you're

making enough money

you don't know what to talk about then

you don't understand money so go learn

how money Works go learn how Bank Works

go sell on YouTube for free you don't

just pay 50 Grand in four years at the

University go sit on YouTube and

understand money banking or the real

estate market any of it understand the

last housing price crash why it happened

understand mortgage rates and how this

affected by interest rates understand it

and then go sit with someone else who

understands it and talk about it people

should even if they haven't got a penny

in the world should be going to these

meetings about real estate about

investing that especially if it's cheap

they should go just meet other people

who at least have money have

conversations about money talk about it

how are you going to get what you don't

talk about and yes the cycle of

precipitation right so a cloud comes it

rains it falls down to the ground it

goes underwater under the ground

whatever goes into a stream it moves

into the stream goes to the ocean

evaporates again up to a cloud floats

somewhere else falls down again it's

always moving that's how money is people

think that money is in these large

stagnant pools hidden hidden in people's

bank accounts it's not really group

money is constantly moving all the time

and if you can find a way to get in

between it and stand in the right place

at the right time you're gonna get wet I

think that's the new modern way to view

the world it's an attention economy it

doesn't matter what you do if you're

getting attention you'll make money one

habit that people need to adopt and this

is a habit I had for a very long time

and I've actually recently cleared it

from my brain because I've reached a

point where peace of mind is worth more

than money but every single time money

is spent you need to identify

how your money was taken from you and I

say taken because money can't be made

money is taken because the only people

who can make money in the government so

if you're a government you can make

money you can print it from thin air or

a bank but if you're a person you're not

making money you're convincing other

people to give it to you you're taking

money from others so every single time

you spend money on anything you need to

identify how it was taken from you when

you go and buy a coffee don't just go

buy the coffee and sit down sit and say

why did I buy this coffee okay I really

want coffee yeah but then why did I go

into this store and not that store is it

better advertising does it have less of

a line do they have seeing how did they

convince me to come in here how much did

this coffee cost six quid what's the

profit margin on that probably five

pound fifty five pounds the AE probably

by the time the cup probably costs more

than the coffee the coffee's just water

how did they convince me to spend six

pounds in this place when you sit there

and analyze and you all start to learn

little lessons about business you'll

learn about the importance of the

signage you learn about the importance

of there being no cue yeah so that if

you ever run a business I say with my

business my people all the time faster

all the time quicker yeah like I have a

couple businesses that are physical I'm

like I don't want to see a line I don't

want to see empty because it looks bad

so when there's lines you work fast

we're down to one or two people you take

your time you talk to the customer keep

it so there's like always one person

like manage the line like people don't

think about this stuff no one's gonna

sit and wait and lock you maybe some

idiots will but people like me won't

we've got [ __ ] to do right my time's

worth money I'm not gonna stand wait in

line so you have to identify how your

money is taken from you if you start

doing that with every single time you

spend anything ever you're going to

start to identify business opportunities

and you're going to sit there and you're

gonna have coffee and you're gonna go

you know what

they could have sold cake and they

didn't

could I out-compete this place let's

imagine I had the money to start coffee

shop right next door how would I out

compete them well I'd have cake because

they don't have cake also most people in

here are businessmen and this the guy

serving some dude no we need a cute

waitress his ass is fired we need a

chick put a chick here put some cake in

uh Financial Times business people in

let's think people don't even think

about this stuff they don't use the

brain ever they don't ever look around

and realize how they're you spending

their money they don't look around and

look at which businesses are successful

they don't look around and pay attention

to anything they don't look at the world

and all the things are happening and how

it can benefit them none of it they

don't look at any of it they're too busy

following the circus this is why it's

clown world

I was walking to school to college with

a couple of my friends in a Ferrari

drove past

and I said bro you see that and he goes

yeah what about it I said doesn't that

piss you off

I've lost about 16. he goes why so this

dude has 400 G's for a car 400 Grand I'm

walking four miles to college because my

mom hasn't got any car he has 400 Grand

do you think he works a job do you think

he's behind a counter somewhere he knows

something about the world that I don't

know and they were like well he's Rich

I'm like yeah I know I didn't say he

wasn't Rich dummy I'm saying he knows

something about the world I don't know

and I was intrigued and it angered me I

couldn't sleep for weeks I was pissed

off every time I saw somebody with

genuine money I understood that

everything I was being told and taught

and and and they were trying to make me

believe just simply wasn't true I was

like this is none of these people are

getting these things by following the

path the system is trying to make me

follow and everybody intrinsically knows

this if you go to a if you if you're a

BP you're at Petrol Station and I pull

up in my Lamborghini nobody goes wow he

went to school he studied hard and they

do that because they know that the mo

the easiest way to get amass wealth is

to break the rules because the rules are

not designed to allow most people most

people to make money you can make money

within the rules of course you can but

most people don't most people who follow

the path work consume die that's it so I

always do the same thing as you and I

knew there had to be another way I knew

that just working for money was a

paradigm that that wasn't true and then

you understand making your money work

for you and you understand delinking

your time for money you start learning

to understand these things but

eventually you build a system

and you build an ecosystem like me I

have 60 or 70 people work from for me

all around the world and things just

happen and money just kind of appears as

long as everything's well organized

I mean in my experience like imagine if

I had didn't have all this money and I

had to go get a job again I'd get a

sales job because I've always been a

Salesman and uh I I think that's a very

important life skill to have to be good

at sales and to deal with the stress and

have a commission only environment but

they don't even I don't know if they

even teach sales in University yeah it's

all garbage you know they don't teach

anything important they just teach

anything they teach things that are

going to keep you inside the slave mind

and they want you to go to school and

then go to college and then go to

university and get in debt and you have

to be in debt so that now you have to

work and you're working and you're in

debt and then they want you to take on

more debt if possible in the in the form

of a mortgage which a lot of people do

which we can talk about because I know

you're the property and then you're in

debt now and once you're in debt you

can't really quit your job and it's very

difficult for you to leave the country

and and now they have now they can hold

things over you that's the goal it's all

about control mechanisms and the system

is very well designed to make sure that

people are uh conditioned to obey it's

very hard for the average person to say

no to anything unless you have millions

and millions and millions of dollars

it's very difficult to even have an

opinion on subjects that's the thing

about being a man and that's what I was

saying to the kids it's like look you

need to get up and it's going to be very

very difficult the world's getting

harder and harder especially for men

it's all clout it's all status it's all

there's no way you're going to matter

unless you get up and you work extremely

hard should young men aspire to work

very hard have no criminal record become

multi-millionaires protect and provide

for the women close to them uh be

Sovereign so they can stand up and have

their own points of view in face of

cancellation be able to not be mentally

intimidated when they go on national TV

and there's traps set up for them yeah I

believe that confident strong men who

stand up and protect and provide for

women are a good thing for the world and

the good Force for the world and I don't

think that I put a magic spell on

anybody I think there's a whole bunch of

men in the world who understands my

value and if if men grow up to be like

me you're gonna have a whole bunch of

people with no criminal record dedicated

athletes who protect and provide for the

people close to them.

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About the Creator

Justine Valendez

It's hard when you are not heard. It's hard when you're not found when you are lost. It's hard when no one sees you for who you are. My stories are open to lift you up, motivate you and give you hope. I hope for you to find your purpose!

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