Life is too short to pass with care, don't miss

Some people are hedonistic, money is spent, just in time; some people are pragmatic, money spent on the edge of the knife, down to earth.

Different choices, no good or bad, each have their happiness.

But, "how to live" is not a moment to understand, is to be slowly explored in continuous exploration.

Perhaps now you are the blind, but the heart feeling, serious exploration, and eventually find the answers you want.

1. smile to face reality

Life is mixed with a variety of flavors, the sweet, bitter, sour, pungent, and salty proportion of each, it is impossible to have only sweet, it is impossible to have only bitter, if you can not avoid, we must set the right attitude, smile to face.

Although it is said that "children who cry have candy," but the world of adults, laughing is always more useful than crying.

As in the case of the "smiling man", know how to smile in the face of hardship, to do not to be confused in the face of danger, and better cope with the unknown.

While crying can sometimes win sympathy, but inevitably make people feel weak and incompetent, such as doddering flowers needing to be attached to others.

Therefore, it is better to cry than to laugh, and it is better to avoid than to face it.

Instead of spoiling yourself, you should laugh at life and be a better version of yourself. Many times, the seemingly impossible hurdles, as long as they dare to face, will eventually pass and turn into nutrients to feed themselves.

Life, laugh more, it's sweet.

Sometimes, you think the bitter, just because you have not found the existence of sweet, feel with the heart, and eventually find the beauty of life.

2. rely on yourself to go step by step

Someone to rely on, no one will want to make things difficult for themselves.

However, there are too few reliable people and tragedy can happen if you are not careful.

When you are young, you can still get help from your parents or elders around you, but when you grow up, everything changes.

In the world of adults, the only person you can rely on is yourself.

As the saying goes, "rely on the mountains, rely on everyone to run, only their own most reliable" There is time to rely on others, it is better to improve themselves.

Only if you become better, you can rely on them.

In the past, we always heard the older generation say "raise children to prevent old age and", "old age can only rely on the son" ...... but the reality tells us, rely on who is better than relying on their own, money only on their own body Only then can you feel at ease.

Those years of "education", in addition to the majority of filial people, but also spoiled the mouth talking about raising parents, but nibbled on the old people and taught them to be selfish, self-centered people.

They are just mouth to mouth, and how will they be willing to heart to support their parents, afraid to get the money, and then not care?

Therefore, "raising children for old age" is better than "saving money for old age".

It is better to rely on others than on yourself.

It is really good to become better yourself.

3. Don't miss the heart

A life, not long, not short.

However, some people have spent most of their lives in a muddle, not knowing why they live in the end.

In the past, they took the road their parents chose for them, and when they grew up, they took the road everyone thought was good, but they never asked themselves what kind of road they wanted to take.

Because they are afraid to try, they can only be deterred, leaving regrets in their hearts.

I thought I was taking a sensible path, but I didn't know that people are too sensible to live like people, like machines that only know how to choose the best, but the best choice does not mean it is the best choice.

Some people, is a winner in the eyes of others, not only in career, but also in family happiness, but who knows how much he once gave up what he wanted for the so-called happiness, can only be alone when silently licking their "wounds", said it is happy but unfortunate.

So, instead of making yourself unhappy for the rest of your life, you might as well do what you want to do.

You can live hard, love with your heart, feel the beauty in life, and do what you want to do with all your might.

Maybe the road ahead is dark, but as long as you dare to take the first step, you can slowly get out of the road that belongs to you, even if it is the last to find the wrong choice, then what is there to fear, the big deal is to start over.

As long as the heart is over, then bitter is sweet.