How you live, is what life

After all, compared to the frustration after the effort, those who have not tried to admit defeat, is undoubtedly let their own life is "fixed", even the opportunity to change.

Efforts still have a chance, resignation will only be manipulated by fate.

People live, not without the opportunity to change their destiny, just some people seized, some missed.

In the movie "Brooklyn", the Irish girl Alice's life was dull, but because she dared to seize the opportunity, she lived a wonderful life of her own.

From this, we can see that fate is not unchangeable but requires great effort and the courage to rise to the occasion and seize the opportunity to truly change fate.

1. Seize the opportunity to change your destiny

Opportunity comes quietly and leaves no trace.

Once encountered, do not try to seize, you will miss.

Sometimes too much hesitation will also miss, after all, the opportunity is fleeting, you miss the opportunity, and the next second will be seized by others.

In the workplace, promotion and salary increase depends on more than hard work but also on daring to seize the opportunity.

I have a friend who works very seriously, but has a rather introverted personality, preferring to work in the corner in silence, rather than communicate with colleagues too much.

She happened to be promoted and the leadership wanted her to take the lead in an event, but she was still unwilling to push herself, so she missed the opportunity and is still working at the grassroots level, with a much lower salary than her peers.

If she had dared to take the first step to seize the hard-won opportunity, she would have been promoted and increased her salary, but unfortunately, she missed it, and it is useless to regret it.

It is better to force yourself to take the first step, challenge the unknown, seize the opportunity and overcome yourself.

2. Take on difficulties and live your own life

Living is not an easy thing.

Some people are bitter and then sweet, some are sweet and then bitter, and different choices at the moment create different directions in life.

Instead of letting yourself enjoy the moment, you should force yourself to face the difficulties, the more you train, the more you can train people.

In their ability to keep up with the desire, only to enjoy is undoubtedly in the degradation of self, rather than to put the mind, efforts to deepen their own, so that they become better, have more say.

Only the more powerful a person is, the more he or she will be able to fight against fate.

It's never too late to eat, drink and be merry, but to improve yourself is a day-to-day persistence, not even one day less.

Instead of passively improving yourself when you are struck by fate without the ability to fight back, it is better to take the initiative to build up strength from now on, so that you can rise to the challenge and defeat fate.

Many times, the challenge is to rise to the challenge, the challenge is to yourself.

Seemingly the suffering is not the exercise, only eating the bitter in the bitter, can only be a person.

Want to live their lives more and more wonderfully, the efforts of the moment are essential, now how hard, how lucky the future.

3. Build up strength and challenge fate

My life is not up to me, believing in fate will only make you lose more miserable, instead of waiting for fate to favor you, rather than trying to build up strength to challenge fate.

Many times, once a person is resigned to fate, will fall into a passive, everything, is controlled by an invisible hand, such as "Truman's World" which can not change.

However, the future is not set in stone, every choice in the present, may allow themselves to change, passive living, see only the known fate.

It is better to dare to change your fate and use your strength to find the most suitable path for you, so that the seemingly unchangeable fate, in the persistent efforts slowly deviates from the original track.

There is no shortage of people who change their destiny in crossover novels, such as the book's vicious female second, they had no way out but to rely on their own to kill the siege, to get a chance for themselves.

If you do not change is dead, it is better to change to get a chance to live.

So, in the face of unknown fate, it is better to accept fate than to change it, only to work hard to build up strength, the future has unlimited possibilities.