No words, but also a great wisdom

Humans have the gift of language, and we rely on it to get along with people in society and communicate.

But language is candied and poisonous, it can make people blossom, can make people fall into a cold pool.

In the process of communication, there is certainly no shortage of language, which may be spoken or body language.

But after living most of your life, you will find that, without words, it is also great wisdom.

Gato said, "Language can both conceal the mind and expose it."

You think language can cover up the heart and use lies as a shield to protect yourself, but what you don't know is that language can also expose everything about you.

Therefore, truly transparent people will do the following three things without words.

The first: other people's gossip

All good relationships in the world need to be kept at a distance, just like the relationship between two people.

You know, the more beautiful things, when you get closer, the more it will hurt.

Lean close, you will find each other's shortcomings; lean close, both sides will be because of some small things and get upset.

Other people's idle matters, you obviously should not interfere, but you end up interfering, in the end, maybe your not.

Even, you may lead to years of feelings directly apart because of these things.

Just as Xiaolin quarreled with her boyfriend before, her best friend Xiaoqi gave her a lot of points, but after listening to Xiaolin more unhappy, and then Xiaolin and her boyfriend back together, Xiaoqi and Xiaolin's relationship is getting awkward.

This is a very common thing in reality, after all, people will always go down on impulse to say a lot of blunt statements, but when you react when the ending has been irreparable.

And in addition to people's emotional idleness, there is no need to care about things in life.

What you think is courageous, in the eyes of many people is stupid behavior.

Although you do good deeds may not ask for a reward, but do things should also consider the consequences and look at the situation at the moment.

In many cases, you keep silent, is the best choice.

Do not speak, others will not look down on you; do not speak, you will not lose anything at all.

For the chatterboxes, wanting to control the mouth is difficult, but in the idle matter really can not go to interrupt, because of the consequences of interrupting the probability of a bad ending.

Second: others do not think well of you

People seem to be arguing about something in their lives, but arguing to argue, the other side still looks down on you, and you have been stuck in place.

Really smart people, generally do not bother to ride on the views of others, because when you do not have the strength to say anything is futile.

If you spend this argument on trying to progress, then you can make them look up to you one step earlier.

There are so many people in the world, you can't do to be liked by everyone, so you just have to cherish the people who like you and ignore the ones who don't like you.

Do say nothing if you resign yourself to fate, but are not willing to count, as long as you work hard enough, you will eventually stand at the peak of their unimaginable.

Third: the future of children

The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what is best for you.

Children either start to become inferior and introverted, or become rebellious, and the relationship between relatives is getting worse.

Parents are the first teachers to their children, not to mention leading by example, at least to take care of their children's emotions.

The child has a love of things and should be supported, rather than just use their ideas to suppress, sometimes you do not go to say, you and the child's relationship will get better and better.

This is a different time, the old generation's ideas have long been inapplicable to the present, parents and elders should respect the child's ideas, if you feel that the matter is inappropriate, then you can properly put forward their suggestions.

Children are capable of thinking, if you are patient and they say, they will certainly listen carefully to consider.

As the old saying goes, "Still waters run deep and people are steady without words."

Many things are best left unsaid. There are many storms on the road of life, and these things can only be digested silently by yourself.

Heard a saying: "There is a powerful force in quietness."

It is in the quiet that bursts forth and allows the seeds of happiness to germinate and life to go well.

Therefore, people should learn to control their mouths, after all, cold and warm, less talk and more work, let us all become wise people in life.