How to face the good and bad in life?

Life journey can be plain sailing is not much, many times have to face the pain of injury. Poverty, bad luck, failure, suffering, one or the other. Even if we do not encounter major setbacks, we will encounter minor twists and turns. Life is long, ever smooth road? When adversity comes, it is useless to complain about depression, the only choice is to face it calmly, brave to smash the pain, in order to overcome adversity, adversity into power, more strenuous efforts. Life is often unpleasant, although everyone is eager to life road full of sunshine, no thorns, but twists and turns, suffering, adversity will always come uninvited. It is true that adversity can make people cry, painful, and bring psychological trauma and mental torture, but adversity can hone perseverance, cultivate talents, and stimulate potential. The power of life comes half from success, half from the vigorous after failure. Many times people develop their potential and achieve great success not when they are in good times, but precisely when they are not. People only after experiencing all kinds of hardships, will become strong. Life will always have its ups and downs. Adversity is only a temporary "ebb" in life. When you are faced with adversity and setbacks, you don't have to complain. You should learn to treat it calmly and rationally. The ancients said, prosperity is not joy, adversity is not sorrow. Few people are fortunate enough not to suffer a little setback. Adversity is nothing but a "barrier", a small "bend" in the road of life. As the saying goes: What goes wrong, comes back. For every blow life throws at us, it gives us some kind of compensation in another form. The key is to adjust your attitude and work hard at it. The more adversity you face, the less you can bow to fate. The more setbacks, the more we must know how to work hard. The more bad luck you encounter, the more you have to live. Adversity is a mirror through which you may find your blemishes, and a good teacher from which you may learn many lessons. People tend to get carried away in prosperity and it is difficult to see their own shortcomings. Adversity can make people wake up, make people self-reflection sum up the lessons of failure, revise, improve their character. People can realize the true meaning of life in adversity and learn many things that can not be learned at ordinary times. Life is because there are many "bends" to sublimate the quality of life. It is because of countless "barriers" that the vicissitudes of life are revealed. It is the ups and downs of the ebb and flow, just present the colorful life. When adversity befalls you, complaining is not the way, nor is it the best policy to endure it, cowering is harmful and unprofitable, the only way out is to be calm, grasp the difficulties, and persevere. Only do not lose faith, self-esteem, spirit is not broken, we can smoothly walk through the "bend" of life. "Adversity is a mirror through which you can find your blemishes and a good teacher from which you can learn many lessons. People tend to get carried away in prosperity and it is difficult to see their own shortcomings. Adversity can make people wake up, make people self-reflection sum up the lessons of failure, revise, improve their character. People can realize the true meaning of life in adversity and learn many things that can not be learned at ordinary times. Life is because there are many "bends" to sublimate the quality of life. It is because of countless "barriers" that the vicissitudes of life are revealed. It's the ebb and flow that makes life so colorful." If miracles are extraordinary, they often occur in the conquest of adversity. Seneca once said, "True greatness lies in the divine invincibility of a weak mortal body." Talent from temper, a little setback, in adversity, a depressed, stagnant people will never succeed. On a gray day, do not let cold fate smile. Temperance, which is required in the face of fortune, and fortitude, which is required in the face of adversity, are more difficult in moral cultivation than the former. Sailing smoothly is admirable, but sailing against the current is even more so. The extension of life road is also the dialectical unity of straight line and curve. Life is realistic and society is complex and changeable. Everyone who moves here will not be plain sailing, will encounter this or that kind of trouble. The contradiction between ideal and reality, the obstacle of interpersonal communication, the difficulty of learning, the trouble of emotional life, the failure of competition and so on, in the final analysis, is that people suffer setbacks in reality. No one can understand the mystery, perhaps it is a lot of fate! You can resent the unfairness of life and feel sorry for yourself. However, you have to take your lessons seriously, straighten your shoulders and stand up to the obstacles of life or the inevitable problems of work. Those who have tasted the taste of failure may have a deeper understanding of life, and the failure in your youth may be of greater benefit to your future development. There are only two kinds of people who regard adversity as a treasure: those who are determined to overcome it. Without such determination, no matter how much emphasis is placed on "adversity is opportunity," it will only turn into another tragedy. And those who can see adversity as opportunity. Without such wisdom, adversity can only bring more misery. The French writer Balzac said, "Things in the world are never absolute. The results vary from person to person. Suffering is a stepping stone to genius. It is a treasure for the able, but an abyss for the weak." Since "life is bad nine times out of ten", the task before you is to overcome difficulties, overcome adversity, and create a new life. All happiness is by no means without cares and troubles, and all adversity is by no means without comforts and hopes. Bacon said: the virtue of man is like precious sandalwood, only in the burning fire will give out the most rich fragrance. Just as bad qualities are revealed in happiness and intemperance, so the best qualities are revealed in adversity. Life is like a sea, only the strong will of the people, to reach the other shore. Therefore, we should take a positive attitude in life, turn adversity into prosperity, overcome all kinds of difficulties, and achieve the greatest success in life.