How can a boy be considered mature?

A boy really mature performance is not to stand in front of a girl, say I love you, give her this send that, like a follower around her. But after experiencing a lot of things, the eyes are full of stories, but there is no childish traces on the face, become calm and confident. Then you can sit in a suit and tie in front of the person you like to have coffee with her, but never say I love you.

Anger is not shown in color.

Can control their own emotions, not too sad and happy, will not be emotion led by the nose, even if the heart is turbulent, but the face can do not show emotion.

Learn to reconcile with yourself.

Don't force yourself to do something you can't do. Start actively seeking change, stop muddling through, stop trying to do everything you can, even when you know you can't do it.

Admit their ordinary, but still believe that they can do anything. No longer blindly compare yourself to others, just to be better than you were the day before. Just like there are certain things that you are born with, given by your family of origin, given by your environment, maybe these things are also holding you back.

When you realize that you can't change something, learn to accept it, and then do what you can to change it. This process will help you build confidence, and with confidence, your outlook will change. Your mental outlook changes, and then your mindset changes, and when your mindset changes, your life changes. Change.

Can do it is not panic, there is a way of life, is very honest. When a boy has this state, it is a sign that he is beginning to mature.

He understood that no matter in the face of friends or parents, know how to be grateful, where will live like a duck in water.

Don't suppress their desires, want to say it. When you are tired, you rest. When you are hungry, you eat. When you want something, you ask for it. No longer with the heart of their true own struggle, follow the heart of the idea to be true to their own, do not pretend forced, do not wronged themselves.

Don't worry about the future, don't live up to the present, don't expect miracles.

I will not be discouraged because others are better than me, but I will try my best to improve my ability in private and surprise everyone.

No matter where you work, never stop getting better, without a skill, you may lose your job at any time, now is the Internet era, learning is one of the lowest cost, and the most obvious effect, it can not only help you get a promotion and raise, but also become a part-time job, help you earn more income.

Know tiangao Thick any bird fly, also know the tiger pingyang is dog bullying.

When you're in a position of power, you don't make a fuss, you don't show off, and you don't tell people until it's done. When you hit rock bottom, you know that people are unpredictable and you don't blame others for not helping you.

Because a truly mature boy, after experiencing betrayal, deception, failure, pain, he can not only understand the good and evil of human nature, but also accept their own ups and downs, more can maintain a pure heart.

Never procrastinate, never make decisions.

Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today. Be able to do whatever you decide to do with your heart and soul. When it comes to making decisions, it's also possible to be proactive and unproactive

On the way to compete with yourself, become stronger and stronger.