From 'Impossible' to 'I'm Possible': 11 Powerful Steps to Transform Your Mindset"
My personal experiment
My mother had a talent for reducing life's most difficult challenges to the simplest of riddles when I was a child. "There's no such thing as impossible," she'd say, her voice filled with the type of assurance that only a mother could provide. "It only takes your efforts to turn that word into possible."
At first, I saw her remarks as mere encouragement, something mothers say to help their children believe in themselves. But one rainy afternoon, as I sat by the window with a dictionary on my lap, her words sank into my consciousness like seeds in rich soil.
"Impossible…" I mumbled while glancing at the word. It appeared formidable: a wall of letters screaming defeat. But then I heard her voice echo in my mind: "Effort can change it." That's when a thought occurred to me.
I grabbed my pencil and started investigating the word like a detective. Im-possible. The "im" was the barrier, the thing that kept the word immovable. What if it wasn't a wall? What if that was a door?
I removed the word "im" from my notebook and wrote it separately. Then I added an apostrophe: I am. Now the word reads: I am possible.
My heart raced. Was that what my mother meant? That even the word "impossible" may be reframed as a declaration of possibility?
When my mother entered the room, I couldn't suppress my excitement. "Look, Mom!" I exclaimed when presenting her my work. "Impossible is just 'I'm possible'!"
She grinned, her eyes full of pride. "That's exactly it, my boy," she murmured, drawing me into an embrace. "You have cracked the code. Remember this: the true magic isn't only seeing the words differently, but living as if you believe them.
Her instruction served as a compass for the rest of my life.
When I struggled to learn the piano, my fingers fumbling over the keys, I told myself, "I'm possible." When I bungled my first science experiment in school, splashing chemicals all over the desk, I wiped it up with a grin and declared, "I'm possible."
Inspired by my mother's unwavering belief that nothing is truly impossible, I devised a framework to assist humanity in developing the mindset required to prevail over challenges in life. I titled it the "I'M POSSIBLE" Principle, with each letter symbolizing a vital stage in transforming obstacles into opportunities. This framework serves as a reminder that the word feasible is already concealed within the impossible, waiting to be unearthed. Here's an in-depth glance at each component of the concept.
I: Initiative.
Take the first step, no matter how tiny.
Change starts with action. Too frequently, the enormity of a challenge paralyzes us, but the key is to get started. Even an insignificant stride forward produces momentum, confidence, and a sense of possibilities. For example, if you want to create a book, even drafting one line will get you started.
M: Meditation.
Reflect and relax your mind to view options clearly.
A quiet mind is powerful one. Meditation or calm thought might help you clear your mind and focus more effectively. When you take a moment to center yourself, you start to see solutions when others only see problems. To make better decisions, it's important to tune out the noise and get clarity.
P: Positivity.
Develop an attitude that expects success.
Positivity does not imply disregarding difficulties; rather, it involves choosing hope and focusing on potential solutions rather than roadblocks. Positive thinking allows you to face obstacles with confidence and ingenuity. It turns failures into lessons rather than disappointments.
O:Observant.
Look for opportunities in each difficulty.
Life is full of hidden opportunities, but only the observant can grab them. When you meet difficulties, teach yourself to look below the surface for opportunities to grow, adapt, or invent. For example, quitting a job may provide an opportunity to pursue a new professional path you've always wanted.
S- Seriousness.
Fully commit to your chosen course.
Halfhearted attempts rarely produce real outcomes. Seriousness necessitates dedication, discipline, and the willingness to persevere through adversity. It's about treating your goals as non-negotiable priorities and devoting the time and effort they require.
S: Sensitivity.
Maintain sensitivity to the needs of others and the situation.
Sensitivity is about empathy and awareness. Understanding the people and events around you enables you to act in ways that promote collaboration while avoiding unnecessary confrontation. It's also about being open to the teachings the universe delivers in each experience.
I: Informative.
Seek information and learn from each setback.
Knowledge is power, and each failure presents an opportunity to learn something new. The more knowledgeable you are, the better prepared you will be to face obstacles. This level promotes ongoing learning by reading, asking questions, and seeking mentors who can help you.
B: Believe in yourself.
Confidence is your most powerful instrument.
Self-belief is the foundation for success. If you don't trust in your own abilities, it's difficult to persuade people or take effective action. Remind yourself of previous wins, no matter how minor, and let them feed your confidence in taking on new tasks.
L: Love.
Begin with accepting love, starting with self-love.
Before you can confront external obstacles, you must build a strong foundation of love within yourself. This entails acknowledging your worth, offering tolerance for your imperfections, and highlighting your strengths. Self-love builds confidence and resilience, allowing you to face challenges with grace.
Love, in its various manifestations, becomes the driving force that propels you onward, transforming obstacles into chances and making the unthinkable possible.
E: Educative
Accept learning and ongoing progress.
Knowledge is the foundation for possibilities. Actively endeavor to learn from all experiences, whether through official schooling, self-study, or lessons from failure. The more you comprehend, the better prepared you are to face the challenges ahead. Growth occurs when you remain curious and embrace the unfamiliar.
Putting it All Together
The "I'm Possible" philosophy is more than a collection of abstract ideas; it's a practical guide to living a life of activity, resilience, and purpose. By accepting each of these phases, you may reframe problems as opportunities and transform what appears to be unattainable into attainable accomplishment.
This paradigm has inspired me and many others to approach life with newfound hope and determination. It serves as a reminder that the most difficult obstacles are frequently in our minds, and with the appropriate perspective, those obstacles can be transformed into stepping stones to something bigger.
My mother's remarks were more than just encouragement; they were a way of life. Effort was more than just reaching goals; it was also about changing your perspective on the world. For me, that transformation transformed the impossible into something infinitely conceivable.
About the Creator
Owobo Steven Abiodun
Hi, I'm Steven! I sincerely appreciate your encouragement for my writing. I hope you find something here that will motivate or enhance the moment.


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