Finding the true love of your life

We all dream of OUR great love.

The love that will take our breath away, and that will last our whole life.

Some of us even dare to dream of love at first sight.

But what happens when that love arrives and it's not as perfect as you dreamed or hoped for?

What happens when you fall in love, but your partner does not fully understand you, and there is a gap you must seek to fill elsewhere?

Perfect love does not exist.

You can decide to believe that it does, but in reality, love and relationships require work.

There is no relationship in which the two people understand each other 100% and make each other happy all the time.

The reality is that those couples who claim to be happy all the time make us believe that by uploading their perfect photos on social networks. However, they are most likely not showing the other parts of their relationship that require work.

So, don't worry, that relationship you see on Facebook is probably not what they make you think.

Human beings are very complex. It is estimated that we have 60,000 or more thoughts a day, and that most of them are negative. In addition, it is said that, on average, men speak 15,000 words a day and women 30,000 (or more).

If most of our thoughts are negative, imagine how many of our words are negative!

To this, add that you not only have to listen to what you say, but you are a social being by nature, and when you live with other people, you will listen to what they say, positive or negative.

You not only live with your paradigms or negative phrases every day but with those of your partner, friends, family, collaborators, and even strangers.

Now, add that everyone has a different story, and your partner also has a different story from yours.

Where am I going with this?

Your partner has different thoughts than you. They are probably not positive all the time. They probably complain at least a couple of times a day. They most likely have a different story from yours, different paradigms, and a distinct personality from yours.

Of course, you're going to have problems at some point, don't you think ?!

And what happens when we have a relationship with someone with whom we are totally and madly in love, and it doesn't work out?

We break the relationship with this person, and all our illusions, dreams, and a small or large part of our story goes with them.

It hurts...

But that's fine.

What is not so good is when that person was your whole life. When you get the idea that that person is "the love of your life."

Don't get me wrong. You love that person. But the love of your life, you are first and before anyone else you!

And if you still don't think you are the love of your life, and you don't feel like the love of your life, take a second look. You are UNIQUE, AMAZING & POWERFUL.

Stop looking for your soulmate. YOU ARE YOUR SOULMATE.

Love yourself unconditionally.

Embrace your flaws, your quirks, your strengths, and your weaknesses. Learn to appreciate yourself for who you are, not who you think you should be.

When you love yourself, you attract positive energy, and people who genuinely love and appreciate you for who you are will be drawn to you.

It's not an easy process, but loving yourself starts with self-awareness. Take time to reflect on your life, your values, your goals, and your aspirations.

Ask yourself what makes you happy, what motivates you, and what you are passionate about.

Prioritize your needs, your self-care, and your personal growth.

Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental health.

Do things that make you happy, whether it's spending time with friends, pursuing a hobby, or traveling to new places.

Treat yourself with kindness, compassion, and forgiveness. Don't beat yourself up for past mistakes or failures. Instead, use them as opportunities for learning and growth.

Remember that you are worthy of love and respect, and that includes self-love and self-respect.

The journey to self-love is ongoing, so be patient and kind to yourself.

Don't wait for someone else to complete you. You are already complete, whole, and worthy of love.