Eliminating negative feelings is the first step for changing your life

The first step for changing your life is to get rid of negative feelings. Negative feelings can prevent you from thinking and behaving reasonably. They prevent you from seeing objectively and prospectively the situations you are experiencing. When we are under the influence of negative emotions, we tend to see only what we want to see and remember only what we want to remember.

Have you noticed that most people have a tendency to focus on the negative side of life and ignoring the positive events? The unpleasant sell more! You just have to take a look at newspapers, magazines and television and see that they are invading and bombing us literally with unpleasant negative events. Rarely good news made the headlines! Rarely, we give the necessary importance to the good events in our lives! Why?

Our negative emotions and feelings are stronger and more painful. Our negative memories never cease to be cruel while our positive memories become weaker over time and we tend to forget the intensity of the positive emotions that we experienced. We tend to magnify the negative feelings, the unfortunate events in our lives, because of fear and terror. Many times we do not know how to handle them and even if we know it is a quite painful process to do. Many times we are afraid our fear! With happy feelings things are simple. The joy is always welcomed and it never brings emotional dilemmas and fears. The joy is something we expect and we are ready at any time to experience at the maximum.

Unfortunately with negative feelings you panic yourself with negative thoughts, torture, suffering and this makes the process of changing you life a denial. Negative thinking can damage your thoughts and make you weak, and unfortunately the negative effects that accumulate around you, drive the situation from bad to worse.

What causes negative feelings?

Negative emotions include anger, sorrow, hate, regret and envy. In some situations, it is quite normal to express these feelings. But when they last for long periods, you are in a negative psychological condition and there is the risk to stop enjoying your life. It is therefore important, to understand the mechanisms responsible for your bad psychological state and to take measures that will gradually allow you to better control the negative feelings.

Emotions are complex reactions. They may be psychological and related to what you think or can be organic and related to what you feel.

You should know that your brain reacts to what you think. It releases hormones and chemicals that create a state of arousal. All feelings, positive or negative affect you in this way.

These are complex procedures and the truth is that we are not prepared and we do not have the necessary skills to handle them. This is why we often find it difficult to properly handle negative psychological situations.

Negative emotions make us feel sad and unhappy. These emotions are leading us to condemn not only ourselves but also others around us. They reduce our self-confidence and our self-esteem.

The hatred, anger, jealousy and regret, can be completely normal under certain conditions. If, however, they last for long periods, will remove from us our love and enthusiasm for life.

The longer this situation lasts, the more difficult becomes the problem. Also adopting wrong ways to deal with negative emotions may aggravate the situation. For example, if anger is not managed effectively this will lead to violence, and as a result will make the situation worse for us.

How to eliminate negative emotions and change your life?

Have your ever thought what would happen if you began to see your life positively, if you were willing and able to make the big step and change your life? If you took your life a little lighter, if you could laugh and learn from your mistakes? Probably not!

There are several things you can do to in order to properly treat the negative emotions. It is important initially not to enlarge the problem because this will re-create the problem constantly in your minds.

You also need to accept the fact that sometimes you will experience negative feelings because they are an integral part of human life. It is better to focus your attention on the search for ways to escape and to make yourself feel better.

Relaxing in various ways such as reading, walking and talking to friends, can help considerably. You can also seek help from the doctor, the psychologist, or your family.

It is important to try to recognize the reasons that make you feel regret, stress, anger, jealousy or hatred. Recognizing negative emotions and knowing what is their cause will help you to prepare in advance to address them.

Physical activity reduces stress and the chemical substances associated with the stimulation caused by stress in our bodies. The relief offered by physical activity, allows us to better deal with the negative psychological feelings.

Finally, it is necessary to leave the past in the past. It is not for your benefit to review the bad situations of the past because this can disturb you from seeing the benefits of the present and the future.

Try therefore to see things from the positive side. Any unpleasant fact, any negative feelings, any fear can work in your advantage and for your benefit! Behind them all lies a lesson that helps us to grow, to mature, to move forward and become stronger.

Wake up tomorrow morning and put your best smile, even if it rains and if the traffic on the road is intolerable or if your colleagues are irritating … Your smile can act as a mirror and suddenly you’ll see others smiling. Smile will change your mood, will increase your energy and your positive energy will surely make you look more beautiful, more powerful, more ready to tackle the problems or difficulties that may arise. All problems have a solution so do not let them take over you. After the storm there is always a rainbow. So do not stay permanently tuned to the rain and clouds! When you catch the bottom, do not give up, it’s your time to get to the surface and change your life! Use negative events as examples to avoid and as shields to protect yourself in the future!

Learn to experience life the positive way! Convince your self that you are not afraid and fight for your dreams, win your joy, do not lose your optimism and especially do not think negative! Become a winner of life! Treat you life, as you want to be treated.