Don’t Be Afraid

Try again, love again, live and dream again to get back up.

We all have issues with trying again with others, and being able to let go of all the negativity surrounding others is hard to handle. Some people will often come around you just to steal some of your positive energy, and the trick to handling these kinds of people is to simply remove yourself from them. If you are in a relationship with this kind of person, it will be even more challenging because you have emotional attachments to this person, so breaking away cleanly is not going to happen, but it can be done. Being at peace with yourself first is the best thing you can do for yourself and others in your inner circle.

Don’t let a hard lesson harden your heart.

You have to learn all of the hard lessons you can along the journey and still be able to balance your emotional and mental state of mind without letting your heart become hardened because of a misunderstanding or betrayal. Making a choice to still have a beautiful heart on the inside will show others that life didn’t kill or destroy you as a person. You still show gratitude wherever possible, and you still help those in need if you can. Of course, life will kick us from time to time, but here’s the thing: if you already know that your heart is bitter, broken, damaged, and all these other negative things, you still have a choice to change it.

Life’s best lessons are often learned at the worst times and from the worst mistakes.

Life does not give us any warning for the mistakes we have made through this journey, and the good news is that it is not supposed to because it is part of your personal growth and development. I love growing and developing the new me because I do not want to repeat the past mistakes with others being in my space. If a person has been around me for more than two years, you should have a better idea of how I operate. I am not a mean person, and I do not take too kindly to others, thinking that they can just say and do things to me that they know that they wouldn’t want to be done to them. When I do come across someone in my life for more than two years, I know that I hold you to a set of standards the same way that I hold myself accountable for my actions. If you choose not to fix the wrong things with you first, we have nothing to discuss.

There will be times when it seems like everything that could possibly go wrong is going wrong, and you might feel like you’ll be stuck in this rut forever, but you won’t.

The key here is to know your limitations and your boundaries. Not everyone will be supporting you the way you think they should, and this is okay. As long as you know what you are trying to do, this matters. No one is perfect, but staying focused on you and what you are trying to do will turn out fine. We all have people in our lives that tend to take from us for some reason or another, but if you only keep the energy that you need to grow and develop, you will soon find out that there are more beautiful things in this life.

When you feel like quitting, remember that sometimes things have to go very wrong before being right. Sometimes you have to go through the worst to arrive at your best.