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Change the direction to go, life has a different situation

There is more than one road in life, miss one, there is the next one.

By Jeffrey C AllenPublished 3 years ago 3 min read

I thought there was no way out, but a change of direction can be a great way out.

Sometimes you can't get through, not because the road is difficult to go, but in the wrong direction.

Thinking that the right, not necessarily the right, maybe the wrong road, if you hit the wall and do not know how to turn back, it will only be the "road to nowhere".

Perhaps the road ahead is rugged, and then difficult to go can also go, but the wrong to change, knowing that the wrong way, but also do not change the direction, will only be farther and farther from success.

Many times, you think you are losing to fate, but in fact, you are losing to yourself, the self that does not know how to adapt.

1. From A different perspective, life is not so difficult

Zhuangzi said, "The son is not a fish, and know that the fish is not happy."

Different people have different feelings about the same thing.

Sometimes you are happy, others are not necessarily happy.

If you judge others by your perception, it will be too one-sided. Only by learning to think differently can you understand what others are thinking.

As "look across the mountainside into the peak, far and near the height of different" that, from different angles to see a different scene, want to look at the whole picture, only look at one side is not possible.

In real life, those who can not pass the road, sometimes have a different perspective on the problem and may find a different vision.

Originally thought that there is no way out, and thought that the road is hidden in it, but most people are in a hurry and forget to pay attention to the scenery along the way, ignoring the hidden answers.

The reason why there are so many regrets in life is that many times those things could have been successful, but failed by chance.

However, this failure is not unpredictable, but some people do not think clearly about how to go, panic and take the wrong road.

Not that the road is difficult to walk, but their own "block" the road.

Sometimes, looking at it from a different perspective, you will find that the seemingly difficult road is not so difficult, just need to rely on them step by step to go.

The road you walk out is the road of life that belongs to their own.

Only if you work hard enough, you can grasp your life.

2. Go in another direction, or there is a turnaround

Life is difficult to complete, seemingly full, in fact, not full.

Just some people do not see reality, the blind pursuit of so-called perfection, the result of pushing themselves too fast, but also suffer from it.

In the pursuit of perfection lost in the self, think they are going the right way, but forget that under the desire can hardly be self, has long gone the wrong way, only they have not found.

However, this does not mean desperate, there is still a silver lining.

Just can not go on the road to wake up, and choose to go in a different direction from a few people, most people always think that a little more effort will have hope, but on the wrong road and then efforts are useless.

Instead of going all the way to the black, it is better to wake up in time and change the direction to go, there may be a turnaround.

However, once you choose to change direction, do not want to turn back, otherwise, you will only make yourself more and more miserable, the original uphill road, into a downhill road.

People will face countless choices in this life, some choices, the choice is the choice, and then regret is useless, the more entangled the more chaotic, think they can grab what nothing can be caught.

Perhaps, when trying or losing, choosing to know the difficulties and retreat, is not the correct choice.

Not everyone can "know that the mountain has a tiger, but to the tiger mountain line", no strength to show off is just asking for trouble, sensible to go in a different direction, perhaps to find a new opportunity to turn.

Seemingly no way to go, but can be a way to survive.

Life in the world can save their own, only their own.

Then the road is difficult, but also to find a solution.

When you can't get through, you may want to go in a different direction.

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