Can't find the direction of life? Part 2

I have also been lost in not finding the direction of my life. After stumbling around, I found that everyone wants different things. Instead of spending time looking for the wrong direction in life, why not stop first, think about what you like and find the right one for you way to go?

The goal of the "ideal life" that is echoed by others is usually not what you really want. Wherever there is a wind, you will only end up in a dead end. In this article, I will share with you two concepts on how to find the direction that suits you.

So I think that before finding the direction of life, you must first "accept yourself", learn to accept your own strengths and weaknesses , understand what you are good at and what you lack, and then find your life goal to go steadily and far. Because no one knows yourself better than you, instead of spending time asking others what suits you, you should spend time asking yourself: What do I like? Is there anything I've always wanted to do but haven't been able to do for some reason?

Story two:

No one knows yourself better than you

Hong Kong's well-known emcee Zheng Yuling (Sister Do) is an actress who has appeared in many movies and TV series, and is also a favorite actor of many audiences, but she decided to stop being an actress and become a host during her heyday. On a radio show, she stated:

"When I decided not to be an actor, I didn't discuss my thoughts with anyone at the time. The future is my own. Only the decision I made can I be willing. After analyzing the consequences of doing it and not doing it, I will never look back. Look at that beautiful moment and ignore other people's "suggestions", after all, no one knows what you want better than you, and only by walking the path you choose will you be willing to take responsibility for your life."

The way of life is to walk out, not to ask.

When thinking about life, please do not discuss or share it with anyone until you have made a decision and started implementing it. Please remember that the road is to walk out, not to ask out . When you are confused, you really need guidance. How to go and how to go is ultimately in your hands. No one can force you what to do, unless the other party is willing to take responsibility for your life.

It happened in the personal experience of my friend Xiaoyu:

Xiaoyu, who has loved to cook since she was a child, is very interested in cooking. When other little girls are still playing house wine, she has already started to learn to make cupcakes. She is very interested in everything related to cooking, especially Western food. Dots are her favorite.

It was her childhood dream to open a western-style restaurant that incorporates Taiwanese characteristics. When choosing a university department, her aunt who loved her most advised her not to study catering.

The vegetarian aunt said that killing life and creating industry in catering would be bad for her fortune. Because of this sentence, Xiaoyu gave up the catering department and studied a business course that she was not interested in. Naturally, the job after graduation was not what she wanted.

As a businessman, Xiaoyu is not interested in the industry he belongs to, so his work performance is very poor, often dragging down the progress of other people, and he has been interviewed by the supervisor several times and still cannot improve.

She was unable to provide a stable family home every month because of her poor work. As a result, her parents began to complain, her family did not understand, and under the pressure of work, Xiaoyu hid in the bed several times at night and cried bitterly. When she woke up the next day, she continued to live a nonchalant life as if nothing had happened. .

When she was 35 years old, Xiaoyu resolutely left the job she didn't like and started to learn and work at a friend's western restaurant. She moved out of her parents' residence and asked her why she had the courage to leave at the age of 35?

"Life before the age of 35 is not for myself. I know that if I don't live for myself again, I will never have the chance to do what I want to do in my life."

Even though life is more difficult than before, but walking the road you want to walk, no matter how hard it is, it is worth it.

If Xiaoyu insists on the path she wants to take when she chooses a department at the university, she can save 10 years of wasted road. Every experience in life must be rewarded, and because of the unsatisfactory years, Xiaoyu is more sure of the path she wants to take.

People often say "I'm all for your own good" and make suggestions. When someone makes a decision, they instill their own conscious thoughts into the other party, thinking that their own ideas are more correct and more "suitable" for the other party.

We can't control what other people say, but you can decide what you do.

Arrange time for yourself, take a bath, read a book, calm down and listen to the voice in your heart in the most comfortable way. In addition to thinking, it is also recommended that you write down your thoughts with pen and paper, no matter what thoughts you have in your heart. Write it down and think about it. Are these thoughts really "what you want" or "what you should want" as someone else says? What do you need to do to achieve the life you want?

Stop complaining about your bad luck in life, accept your imperfect self, and listen to your heart, because no one knows you better than you.

Have you had any thoughts about changing your life lately? What is your approach? If you are already on the way to change, have you encountered any difficulties?

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