What is the dark side of falling in love?

Relationships and love are incredibly risky these days. People experiencing heartbreak and breakups and going crazy over them are all around me.

Does it, however, begin that way? No.

There is the initial exhilaration and euphoria at the beginning. It becomes routine to anticipate every text and call, as well as to enjoy fantastic dates, secret kisses, strong hugs, and adorable cuddling. When that one person becomes the center of your existence and your life feels wonderful, the rest of the world is forgotten.

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Routine then develops as the weeks, perhaps the years, go by. The pleasure gradually fades, the excitement subsides, and familiarity grows. You adjust to one another. There are fewer phone calls and text messages. Persons become busy. Life continues. You give up battling sleep all night long just to talk to them. No longer do you receive good morning texts when you awaken? You interact, but not as frequently. Even then, something still seems to be wrong. That flame has faded.

You sense a change in your partner. Perhaps they no longer have the same feelings for you. You start to feel down and uneasy. Nothing that you try to explain as to what went wrong really makes sense. You grow apart, there are miscommunications, disagreements, and arguments. You suddenly realize that you and your lover aren't compatible after all one day. And that it is finished.

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The challenging phase follows. Moving on. But, it's simpler said than done. You realize that living without them in your life feels impossible. because you initially told your partner everything. Your trusted advisor. a person you. How do you let go of something all of a sudden? How do you adjust to the way things are different?

So you start blaming yourself. You become upset with yourself forever thinking it would last indefinitely. Yet, nothing endures forever. Things shift. Humans evolve. You must also accept it. So you develop coping skills. You make an effort to live day by day. But then somebody casually makes mention of them, or talks about their favorite ice cream flavor, or a song they enjoyed... and a flashback of recollections transports you back to that time.

After many restless nights and days of pretending everything is fine, you finally tell yourself enough is enough. Just because he or she is no longer in your life doesn't mean you have to stop living. You were OK before they came along, after all. Hence, you learn to get back up when you're down. You push yourself to leave the house, socialize, catch up with old friends, concentrate on your profession, and pick up a new interest. You gradually become aware that there is a complete world outside of you when normalcy returns after your romantic relationship. You recover and improve because there are other people and other situations that are equally great and gratifying.

Once you hear their name and feel nothing, you know you've finally moved on. No animosity, no bitterness, nothing. You have grown stronger and wiser. You've improved as a person. Most significantly, though, you're back to 100%.

So, the darkest part of falling in love is severe attachment and emotional dependency on someone.

A person doesn't fall under your spell. You fall for someone because of the way they make you feel. All of us romanticize falling in love far too much!

Hence, if you choose to center your life entirely around a person, it will leave a gap after they depart. Everything in life has a cost, after all. also love.

in particular, love.