What happens if you get married and have no children?
It is said that children are the bond of emotional maintenance. Will the absence of children affect the relationship between two people? What would a two-person world without children be like?

Whether or not to have children after marriage is decided based on mutual discussion between the husband and wife. If the two of you agree that it is okay not to have children, then do not have children. The two need to understand each other. Of course, if there are children, it will add a lot of fun. With the crystallization of love between two people, the life of a family of three or four is very comfortable. If you don't have children, it means that two people will be together for a lifetime. It may be a bit boring after a long time, but as long as the two people have a good relationship, there is no problem. But if you often quarrel because you regret not having children, the loss outweighs the gain. Therefore, there are actually many things in life that need to be chosen. If you don’t have children, you may face no one to take care of you when you get older. However, the country’s nursing homes and other institutions are relatively sound, so this can be guaranteed. If you don't have children, you may not enjoy the fun of children, and you may not feel the joy of a multi-family family. However, as long as the husband and wife are together, they support each other, understand each other, and take care of each other. Marriage and whether to have children is decided based on mutual discussion between the husband and wife. If the two of you agree that it is okay not to have children, then do not have children. The two need to understand each other. Of course, if there are children, it will add a lot of fun. With the crystallization of love between two people, the life of a family of three or four is very comfortable. If you don't have children, it means that two people will be together for a lifetime. It may be a bit boring after a long time, but as long as the two people have a good relationship, there is no problem. But if you often quarrel because you regret not having children, the loss outweighs the gain. Therefore, there are actually many things in life that need to be chosen. If you don’t have children, you may face no one to take care of you when you get older. However, the country’s nursing homes and other institutions are relatively sound, so this can be guaranteed. If you don't have children, you may not enjoy the fun of children, and you may not feel the joy of a multi-family family. However, as long as the husband and wife are together, support each other, understand each other, and take care of each other, I believe they can spend this life in peace.

I think love and marriage are two different concepts. Love is a feeling, while marriage is a responsibility. When the freshness of love is not there, love will go away from us. Marriage is different, and the responsibility of marriage is great For love, even if there is no love in the marriage, two people will be kept together because of various responsibilities.
Everyone will seek their own love throughout their lives, and finally both parties will enter the palace of marriage together, but many people do have different views on marriage and love. Some people think that love is spiritual life, and marriage is real life. So what is the difference between the two? , how to understand?

One, love is a carnival between two people.
Love is two people, you don’t need to consider so many factors, you don’t need to consider other people’s feelings, but marriage is different. Marriage is the combination of two families. After marriage, two people have to raise children and support the elderly together, so there are many people It is said that love is a carnival of two people, and marriage is a dance of a group of people.

Second, the original appearance of marriage is dull.
Many studies have shown that there will be a gap in the hearts of men and women after they fall in love and get married. At this time, there will no longer be so attentive flowers and red wine, but a lot of chicken feathers after marriage. However, there is not so much excitement after marriage. The most important thing is to live with a partner, repeating the same thing every day, it is impossible to keep sweetness forever, so don't blame your significant other for not caring about you, it is because you have been defeated by life, and after marriage, you have to think more about daily necessities , Considering the issue of survival, I don't have so much time to go to the romantic world.

Third, you must enjoy love before marriage.
I think it is a pity that you have not been in love before marriage, because only if you have enjoyed the feeling of being loved, you will not be easily moved by men's sweet words, and you will not easily lower your standards for choosing a mate. Fear of marriage, but I want to say that choosing the right person to marry is better than being single, because from then on there will be one more person to share with you.



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