The woman who is loved by men in thousands

In a sea of people, how small the odds are that you will meet someone you love and who is willing to spoil you, such women are often enviable.

Every woman, with the best expectations of love, waiting and looking, hoping to find the man who pampers her a thousand times. Talk about love like the warm sun shining on their own, with a happy marriage.

Just why do some women look very ordinary, but can make men love them for life?

The truth is that there is a lot to learn here, and a woman's wisdom and its characteristics, psychologists point out that the woman can be loved by men for life, often with these few major performances.

A lively and lively multi-faceted dolls type of woman

If a woman is quirky, bringing men joy and fun, as well as joy and happiness, is precisely where you have been appreciated at the root.

Everyone in the relationship is looking for a pleasant feeling, either the visual dynamic heartwarming, the taste of personality to make people love, or humor and fun laughable skills.

Men are attracted to you, you are attracted to men, most of them because of some fun and charm, not just the reality of the conditions of the match and fit.

If a woman with a cunning rabbit, quiet as a virgin, so that people can not figure out what kind of personality you belong to, the bias can move can be quiet, sometimes lively, sometimes quiet, sometimes thunderous, and sometimes well-behaved.

The quirky and multi-faceted nature of the personality will make men feel that with you, is a very interesting thing, not only at first sight but also for a long time, always happy and fascinated, this feeling, like a great obsession with a state of interest, always love, always cherish enough.

Can be very serious and hard work, but also can be playful and lovely, as well as frank and spontaneous, never lose the woman's unique gentle and quiet, but also has a woman's decency and generosity.

Second, love life, innocent and interesting, bring men to surprise women

A woman who can make a man spoil his life is always interesting and attractive.

The reason why Yunnan in "Six Records of a Floating Life" is loved and missed by her husband for life is because of Yunnan's innocence and fun. She was never a stickler for propriety and loved life.

Life is always changing so Shen F always has a kind of surprise.

Such as Yunnan then love to dress up as a man, and often go out to let the wind to the street, once Yunnan met her best friend, she forgot that she was dressed as a man, habitually with a hand on her shoulders her best friend, and then the other side said is a rascal, back after the incident was Shen F knew, feel Yunnan too interesting.

It is because of your interests and differences that you will bring extra surprises in the day-to-day boring love and married life.

Three, grasping the proportion, will not touch the man's bottom line of women

In love, there will be some women, who are used to bullying and pride. Always feel that since the other side so spoiled her, naturally will be more tolerant of her, even in some things touched the bottom line, but also continue to spoil her.

Unfortunately, they are wrong!

If a woman, thinking that she has captured the heart of a man, can be more reckless, and doesn't care about the feelings of men, it is not far from the breakup.

We have to be clear, in love, love can indeed accommodate many things. But for some very special things, once the bottom line is touched, it is easy to destroy the sweetness of this relationship.

Premier Zhou's wife Deng Changing said, "True and pure love must seep with respect for the labor and occupation of the beloved."

The woman who can be pampered by men all the time just knows how to grasp the "proportion" when getting along.

Fourth, the woman who will express her needs when pampered

The pampering is not the kind of "rabbit so cute, how can eat rabbit"!

It's "husband get me a glass of water", you want to drink water, this is not your needs?

Why does pampering work so well? The reason is that in the process of pampering, we can clearly reasonably express our needs.

The tougher a man looks on the outside, the softer he is on the inside. If a woman can give him her loveliest side, she can move a man's heart.

Men will think like this: this woman is too cute, right? See your cute face, hear your petulant voice, and can not afford to lose your temper!

So, smart women do not always and men hard, occasionally pampering men, provoke men to your protective desire, men will be habitually gentle and considerate to you.

Five, worship the man's woman

Worship will make men feel a strong sense of existence, including being needed, dependent, as well as being understood, etc. It is these feelings that make men once they fall in love, it is difficult to put down and give up.

A woman can worship her boyfriend or husband from the heart, then her love and marriage must be very happy.

Because in Mallow's hierarchy of needs theory, we can know that the need to "be admired" belongs to the level of emotional needs, only after this level of needs is met, can a higher level of needs develop.

Men like to talk about themselves, you can understand them, trust them, and even look at them with admiration or praise them.

He will feel that you are the object of his spirit and emotions, let him enjoy and hold in the palm of his hand baby.

Sixth, the more beautiful and radiant woman in the nourishment of love

Nourished by happy love or marriage of women better than other women the most obvious characteristics, you tend to family happiness, husband and wife, their significant other can understand themselves in life and work.

You will mix well in the family and company, without worries, because of your own husband's love and support for you.

Therefore, your life will become peaceful and smooth, with fewer quarrels, and more warmth, which will naturally make women live better and become more radiant than in their teenage years.

A woman's face, not cosmetics can cover, only a man's thoughtfulness and tenderness, in the world of love immersed in it and nourished out!

You will get more and more beautiful and charming as you grow older. The taste of happiness emanates from the inside out as a result of being pampered by a man.

You are not ravaged by the years, not bothered by trivialities, and live a comfortable woman.

Seven, the woman who brings men a sense of comfort

Psychological studies have shown that most women who can be pampered by men have a commonality, that is, men have a comfortable feeling when they get along with them.

There is a hedgehog effect in psychology, which refers to the distance between people in getting along, not too close to each other, otherwise, it will increase unnecessary conflicts, the only way to keep the appropriate distance is so that the two people can achieve both the purpose of mutual warmth and will not stab each other.

Let men feel comfortable, comfortable with the majority of women understanding this, so you will be in the handling of feelings reserved for the right space, not too sticky, not too glued.

Eight, never stop self-growth steps of the woman

Women who can make men spoil their lives have a characteristic - growth.

This characteristic is to never stop their growth steps, never improve themselves, looking for various excuses to avoid comfort.

It is said that the "seven-year itch" is a calamity that every marriage has to go through, over, that is all happy; over, that is too late.

However, in the mixed, divorce is the norm in the entertainment industry, but there is a loving couple Chen Doming and Du Xian.

The two of them have known each other for forty-one years and have been in marriage for thirty-seven years. During this long period, their feelings have always been as loving as ever, and although there are occasional quarrels, they never turn into huge conflicts in marriage.

Chen Dan Ming from a runner. The company has become a movie star in the eyes of people, and during that time, Du Xian never stopped himself.

She studied hard and got a master's degree in economics; she worked hard to learn English, got into graduate school, and became a professor at the Communication University of China.

Chen Doming went forward, and Du Xian followed suit. They both always kept the same pace and progressed at the same frequency. Du Xian, who has been improving herself, keeps improving her self-worth.

So, she and Chen Doming always have something to talk about, and such a hard-working and excellent she also naturally gets Chen Domingo's lifelong favor.

There is no permanent marriage, only couples who grow together, those who can be spoiled by the man's life of women invariably do not stop growing on their own feet.

Because only in this way, they will experience each other in the long years of honor and disgrace together, the beauty and sweetness of mutual support.