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Love is complex but here are some signs to know he loves you.

By Sophia Eruemu Published 3 years ago 2 min read
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Signs that a man loves you varies depending on the individual. But here are some common indicators that he loves you :

ACTIVELY SPENDING TIME WITH YOU

We know time is valuable and time is money . If he actively tries to spend time with you, he sees it as you are a good addition to his life and makes an effort to create meaningful experiences together. He puts his phone away when he is with you. It's not always about being physically present but also emotionally present during those moments.

CONSISTENT COMMUNICATION

He makes an effort to stay in touch with you regularly, either through texts, calls or in-person conversations. He is genuinely interested in what you have to say and shares his thoughts and feelings with you. He tells you about his day-to-day activities. He replies to your texts quickly and if he is busy and can't reply fast, he tells you he is busy and will get back to you later.

PRIORITIZING YOUR HAPPINESS

He shows concern for your well-being and happiness. He won't give room to have you constantly questioning the relationship. He will show you through his actions. He may go out of his way to do things that will make you smile or bring you joy.

SUPPORTING NATURE

A man who loves you will support your goals and dreams. He'll always be there to encourage you, provide a listening ear, and offer assistance when needed.

ACTS OF KINDNESS

He shows affection through small gestures like bringing you coffee in the morning, serving you breakfast in bed, helping with household chores, or surprising you with thoughtful gifts.

INTRODUCING YOU TO FAMILY AND FRIENDS

If he's serious about the relationship, he will introduce you to his friends and family. This demonstrates that he wants you to be a part of his life in a more significant way.

RESPECT AND TRUST

Love is built on respect and trust. He will always respect your boundaries, opinions, and decisions. He will also be honest with you and expect the same from you.

DISPLAYS AFFECTION

He is comfortable showing physical affection in public and private settings. Either holding hands, hugging or kissing.

WILLINGNESS TO COMPROMISE

Love involves compromise and understanding. He will be open to finding solutions that work for both of you when conflicts or differences arise.

FUTURE PLANS

He includes you in his future plans and talks about long-term commitment. Talking about "when are we getting a house together" and stuffs like that. He envisions a life with you as an integral part of it.

PAYING ATTENTION

He pays attention to what you say and remembers important details about your life, showing that he values and cares about you.

EMOTIONALLY OPEN

He is willing to be emotionally vulnerable with you, sharing his fears, insecurities and deeper feelings.

It's important to remember that love is complex and these signs are not definitive proof of love. Relationships require time, effort and communication from both parties to flourish. If you're unsure about his feelings or intentions, consider having an open and honest conversation about your relationship and where you both see it going.

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