Middle-aged couples are separated because of emotional disagreement? Many people ignore the underlying reason

People in middle age want to make everything go smoothly in their lives, but in fact, there are many times when the pressure increases sharply. Especially when the pressure of unemployment is exerted, if the other half cannot understand, in fact, middle-aged couples are more likely to have feelings.

Although in middle age, the husband and wife have run in for half of their lives, and logically they are more able to persevere, but the fact is often that at a certain age, two people are reluctant to fight, and the final relationship becomes precarious.

Some people say that the relationship between husband and wife can be judged by whether they are still in the same bed, but many people do not know why the husband and wife sleep in separate beds, so they regard the separation as a sign of broken relationship.

Therefore, middle-aged couples are separated because of their emotional disagreements? In fact, it's not just that. Many people ignore the underlying reasons.

Some time ago I received a letter from a reader that Juanzi has been separated from her husband for three years, and the request for separation was made by her husband himself. At the beginning, she said that she was busy working overtime, and she was afraid that it would affect Juanzi’s sleep. After the class, I still continue to separate the beds.

Regarding this situation, Juanzi always thinks that her husband has someone else outside, so she keeps on suspicion, even stealing her husband's mobile phone to read, but there is always no evidence. So every night, I still don't sleep well, and I usually quarrel when I see my husband.

In fact, similar to Juanzi’s situation, I have received many similar letters. They all suspected that there was a reason for the separation of the other half of the bed. Most of the people who suspected the two-heartedness accounted for most of them, and some even thought about finding evidence. Just broke up, there are still some torturing themselves every day and don't know what to do. But in fact, many people may not know the reason for the separation of the middle-aged couple.

Sleeping in separate beds may be just a way for the other party to save the marriage.

Everyone has their own shortcomings, but many people can't control their shortcomings in front of the person they love the most. Therefore, in order to protect this relationship, the other half may choose to sleep in separate beds, after all, to avoid quarrels. It is also a way to save a marriage, but many people don't understand it.

Like a friend before, the reason why he and his wife sleep in separate beds is that the wife always likes to say things that make people feel bad before going to bed. The two often quarrel before going to bed, so they both have a bad rest. So to change this paragraph Relationship, he proposed to sleep in separate beds.

But when one does not explain, or one does not understand, he will only regard this "salvation" as impatience. Therefore, if you are sleeping in separate beds, it is better to think about whether you have any habit that is hated by the other half, rather than directly doubting the other half.

Sleeping in separate beds may be a way to escape the stress of life.

Everyone needs to be alone. Even if they have been married for many years, the other person who has been with him for a long time cannot help them relieve some pressure. After all, some things need to be digested by themselves, especially for men.

In a client who visited before, he once said that he loves his significant other very much, but the work pressure is too great, he cannot say that his wife has to take care of the children. So every night, as long as he sleeps in front of his wife, he can't sleep well. After half a year of sleeping in separate beds, his wife starts to divorce and doesn't know what to do.

In fact, the most important thing between husband and wife is to be considerate. When a problem arises, first consider the other person’s point of view to be able to solve the problem. Therefore, your spouse may just relieve the pressure of life.

All in all, the person being asked often does not understand the matter of sleeping in separate beds, and the lack of understanding has turned into a kind of suspicion. Although this kind of psychology is relatively normal, it is necessary to explore different situations. .

When the other half has abnormal performance, patient communication is often more maneuverable than letting go. Many couples are patient with each other when they first get together. This is still not understood, but in middle age, they seem to lose the patience to stabilize the relationship, so they can only rely on the relationship to get worse.

A good marriage always requires the efforts of both parties, so don’t deny or doubt the other half because of one thing. After all, if middle-aged couples sleep in separate beds, it’s not necessarily a relationship disagreement. Many people ignore the underlying reasons. Only then has the relationship between husband and wife really become more and more incompatible.