Is your relationship over?Experts identify signs that it's time to call it quits.

Separating from your partner is more common than you might think, and there are a variety of reasons why couples decide to end their relationship. Recognizing the signs that your relationship is over can help you decide whether to call it quits.

"For some people, it's a slow recognition of a number of things that start to emerge in their relationship, while for others, there is a defining moment — when they realise the relationship simply can't last, often when you realise that you no longer love the person that they are with, or sadly, that they no longer love you," says dating coach and behavioural psychologist Jo Hemmings.

She continues, "However challenging it may seem, talking it through with your partner and expressing how you are feeling is the only way to genuinely understand whether you have a future together if you want to address the issues that are developing in your relationship.

A lack of enthusiasm and communication

Jo Hemmings, a leading dating coach and psychologist, lists the top reasons why a relationship has ended.

"Rowing over trivialities that never bothered you before, "She starts. "Or, if things get really bad, not arguing at all because you or your partner simply can't be bothered to row.

"Another sign is a growing lack of communication or disconnect, both in and out of the bedroom, and a lack of concern for who they are with or what they are doing. Others include increasing enjoyment or anticipation of spending time apart from your partner; noticing flaws in your partner that you were previously unaware of or even loved them for; and feeling that sex is a chore or lacks intimacy."

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Arguing

Of course, arguing is high on the list as well. "Most couples argue from time to time, and it's usually a healthy way to express yourself," Preece says. "However, if you find yourself doing it frequently, there are probably some underlying issues. You'll start snapping at them for the smallest things."

Not arguing

According to Preece, a lack of arguing can also be a bad sign. "Even more concerning than arguing excessively is when you completely stop. If you're not willing to fight for what you want, you're not going to fight for your relationship."

Your gut feeling

Sometimes your instincts are correct. "If your relationship has run its course," Preece adds, "you'll both know deep down, even if you don't want to admit it." "It will be a nagging little voice in your head telling you that something isn't quite right. It's best to talk about what's going on and plan a separation as amicably as possible in this situation."

Boredom

"If you're not excited to see your partner anymore, something is wrong," he says. "You've both stopped trying and are stuck in the same patterns. You keep going to the same place, doing the same things, and having the same conversations. You can save a relationship by mixing things up again, but if you don't want to, your days are numbered."

Resentment

"If you have a strong relationship, you are a team," he says. "Your partner's success and happiness are also yours. If you are on the verge of a breakup, you will begin to perceive these as personal slights against you. Every comment or action they make, no matter how well-intended, will irritate you."

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You fight fairly

"Couples who have healthy relationships know that the point of a fight is to communicate, not destroy each other," she says of "fighting fair."

"They are sensitive to each other's feelings; they are careful with tone and wording."

"The goal of good communication," she says, "is to be honest, authentic, and kind - not nasty, critical, defensive, or dismissive."