A happy marriage must go through "three steps"

In real life, old husbands and young wives, or old wives and young husbands, especially when the age gap is too large, will end miserably. Generally speaking, the younger party should have appeals, which are nothing more than the following points:

One is the name. If one party is a public celebrity, the younger party wants to use the other party's fame to achieve a certain purpose in his heart.

The second is profit. If one party is a rich man or a rich woman, the younger party wants to get the life he wants through marriage and sharing the other party's money.

The third is sex. If the older one is good in bed, it may also give the younger one unexpected satisfaction.

The fourth is virtue. If both parties have good morals, and they really have a good relationship in the relationship, and they can't save face, they may also be combined.

However, no matter what kind of situation, at most, it only meets a single need, and it can't be too satisfactory, so it is not surprising that such an ending is, not to mention that Yu Xiuhua is semi-disabled, let alone. The anchor reminds everyone that an old cow eats tender grass and becomes a lover at most, and cannot enter a marriage. So what kind of love relationship can finally enter into marriage? The anchor believes that three steps must be taken:

The first step is to know yourself and others.

First of all, what are your strengths? Is it beautiful and talented, or famous and rich, soberly knowing what the other party loves most about you? We must use external means to avoid the aspect that the other party likes and the aspect that may be injured in the future. If the other party is together for your appearance, then don’t let him get it easily; if the other party is together for yours, then you don’t use your talent to create value for him; if the other party is together for your name , then you will not bless him in your own name; if the other party is together for your wealth, then you should notarize the property before marriage, etc., and use a more realistic method to restrain the occurrence of this disaster.

Second, we must learn to look at the character. Good at discovering each other's character from the subtleties of life. Learn to analyze whether the other party is violent or kind; strong or gentle; villain or gentleman. The person who truly loves you will take care of you everywhere and will not let you suffer any harm. When you get married, you won't regret it.

The second step is the reality test

Test with money first. People who truly love you will love you desperately, not to mention that money is just outside the body. If you are willing to spend money for you, and you are willing to use money to meet your needs, it is worth interacting with, otherwise everything is empty and untenable. Of course, from how much the other party spends on you, you can also see whether he really loves you.

Second is the test of time. People who truly love you will often like to be with you. The so-called companionship is the longest confession of love, which is not bad. So, anyone who doesn't want to spend time with you is not worthy of your love.

The third use event test. Those who truly love you will stand the test of life. Make an agreement with each other without additional conditions, as long as he can fulfill his promise unconditionally, it is worth going down. For example, contacting anytime and anywhere, checking posts 24 hours a day, and checking on mobile phones unconditionally are the most effective and practical ways to test true love.

The third step is to love the house and Wu

People who truly love you will love your family and friends even more in order to make you happy. Because he integrates your life with mine, brings you into his family circle and life circle, not only wants to know everything about you, but also wants to let you know everything about himself. Such people can go into marriage. That is to say, two people have no independent private space, and they are both transparent. Otherwise, both parties have their own little ninety-nine, and they are not magnanimous or even concealed. Such a marriage will definitely collapse.

I sincerely wish young friends to take these three steps well before marriage and truly find their own happy life.