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Twelve stifling sexual temptations

Sometimes it's hard not to have sex

By Mary HobbsPublished 3 years ago 3 min read

Two people who love each other, get along for a long time, and sometimes make love will inevitably lose the feeling of passion. At this point, if you can find some interesting ways to make each other more "sexual", intimacy will be more complete!

Method one: Passion photo

One of you will be the photographer and the other will be the model. The latter must be at the mercy of the former, and then take on whatever provocative poses the other person dictates, and be at ease in the spotlight with your own sex appeal. You can shoot with just a camera, but a D8 or V8 is better if you take turns to get a better grip on each other.

Method 2: Porn

Be brave enough to open your camera, record your love process, and secretly play an AV male actor or female actress! All the erotic body movements and enjoying the scene of joy can be a full panoramic view, many times the good memories of all recorded! But please be careful that the tape is not leaked or stolen! Otherwise, the next time on a porn site to see the hero or heroine very likely is your excellency. If you're afraid of this happening, wash it off after you watch it.

Method 3: Play with the wind

Prescribe to each other a period of time during which you must do whatever the other person says. It was a curious pattern of anticipation and fear of being hurt.

Method four: strip full show

Dim the lights in your house, put on your sexiest outfit in the dim light, and put on some mesmerizing, throbbing music to give your partner a primal, private strip show.

Method 5: Blindfolded

Cover your partner's eyes with a towel or handkerchief and feed them a variety of different foods, one bite at a time, to see if they recognize what they're eating. Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger are famous for playing this "delicious guess" game in the movie 9 and a Half Weeks.

Method six: caress try to guess

Or cover your partner's eyes and fondle his or her sensitive naked body with any large or small object you can find around the house and see how many he can guess.

Method 7: Delay gratification

Start with passionate sex, but as soon as you feel you're close to orgasm, pause and cool off. Then start looking for it again. Do this over and over for at least an hour, and then let the orgasms build up until the end.

Method 8: Strange Sex

One partner goes to a bar alone and then pretends to meet and chat up the other, like a beautiful first acquaintance. You can try out which opening lines work and which ones don't, and then enjoy the unexpected feedback you get from your partner.

Method 9: Switch genders

It's very simple. A man pretending to be a woman, a woman pretending to be a man, you can play her/him as much as you want, and switch back when you're done.

Method 10: Variety Time

Both of you find little pieces of paper and write down, one by one, a sexual act you've secretly desired or wondered about. Then collect it in a hat or bowl. Then PICK ONE AT RANDOM AND DISCUSS THE TOPIC. If BOTH OF you AGREE, TRY this. This is great for sharing desires.

Method 11: Break Records

When you're having sex, the time is to see how long you can thrive in bed. Don't lose to a bunny with a powerful battery!

Method 12: Pen Pal Romance

The two of you pretend to be strangers, then send wild, provocative e-mails to each other, and seduce each other with this kind of erotic romance.

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