I Broken My Promise, Made Her a Second Priority

Love is the feeling in the universe that resists all the unnecessary feelings with whom the love happens. You would make her as important as your breath. But what led me to make her second priority instead of first? I am going to register it but promise me that you all will not go angry with me. Mobile phone! you heard it right. Using my phone restlessly, it came between us and it happened. Well, I am a gamer but not a professional. So I just love to play online games and in between it I forget to make conversation and spend time with her whenever I free myself from the games I start using social sites like my Facebook, & Instagram handles, and as you all know that social sites are like an addiction I mean if you start using them you will forget everything even if your hunger sometimes ..haha. But yes it is bad for our relationship. I want to confess more so please give me your time.

If we look back at when there were no online games and social sites. I used to spend time with her either in the house or somewhere else. We use to visit romantic places, monuments that give romantic vibes, decent rides on the roads, and deep diving in the sea. when I see now everything has changed. we all have heard that “a coin has two sides” which means everything in this world holds both positive and negative aspects. here I am saying about social media's effects on my life. Social media ruined my love life and I think not only mine but I can surely say that approx 45% of the world's relationships are broken due to it not only romantic relationships but platonic it's saddening to say that but it's the truth.

I know you all will think that I am blaming social sites just for protecting myself and hiding my own faults but it's not like that. if you see around you will find that 70% of people including couples spend there most of their time on social sites. I have realized that a strong relationship is based on communication, time, and understanding.

This conducts me to the primary reasons why social media harms human relationships:

JEALOUSY:

Yes, jealousy in social media plays a great role in increasing this factor in human behavior. let me be clear we all have social accounts right? If people see posts of other ones enjoying and doing great in the life of their categories like if couples see other happy couples' posts related to their love and life they start comparing themselves with them which directly affects their life.

COMMUNICATION:

Route of every relationship but in this era of social sites, we forgot to communicate with our loved ones. we are too busy with our social media friends and their life that we have forgotten ours. People started communication by chatting with strangers for knowing them and started being strangers to their loved ones. It is a heart-wrenching thing for us

DEPRESSION:

Social sites became a source of depression for those ones who are experiencing difficult relationships, failure, and many more things in their life. when these peoples open their social accounts they see happy ones' and successful ones and start feeling anxiety and stress it leads them to the path of depression and no one to help them and which leads to suicide in many areas.

In my opinion, social media creates an illusion of perfect happiness, and successful life in everyone life by hiding their true persona. People started showing fake positive pictures and updates of their life and relations on social sites but the reality speaks differently. social media is an addiction-like drug that gave us happiness for some time and then destroys but there is a different drug that destroys the life of the one who takes this and social sites destroy our surroundings as well as ourselves.

In my case I know I’m teasing myself indirectly because she is my life and I am hurting her by ignoring her because of the negative impact of social sites on my life but guys its time for me and for you all who are doing the same with there loved ones to let your loved ones where they belong I will make her my first priority.

when we talk about relationships then we can say that a healthier relationship starts with great communication with one another and with understanding each other emotions and needs & also relationships should be personal and with lots of understanding. So start focusing on it.

Love is pure and the foundation of life.