Everything is the best arrangement

At every stage of life, there may be problems. Whenever we encounter certain problems, we always think that it will be all right at a certain age, right? But in fact, every stage has troubles in every stage of life.

The biggest worry for children who are studying is "can they not go to school". Adolescence, entangled in the trouble of "I like him, but he doesn't like me".

When I was in my twenties, I understood that life is not easy, and the biggest worries are the problems encountered at work. At the age of 30, I encountered a bottleneck in my career and felt lost in my life. Forty years old, at the ages of seniors and minors, they often move forward under a heavy load.

Life is like this, while encountering problems, solving problems at the same time. Life is a non-stop process.

Therefore, when encountering difficulties, it is better to take the initiative to challenge instead of being flustered. Don't feel sorry for yourself, face up to difficulties when you encounter problems, just keep moving forward.

We cannot go back to the past, let alone predict the future. All we have is the present. Taking every step of the way steadily and doing our best to live up to the moment is the best way for us to treat life.

I have heard such a story: a poor philosopher traveled to all over the world to study, and he had a very happy life every day, as if he was born with no troubles.

One day, when he was passing by a village, an old man asked him: "You said, why is life so bitter?"

The philosopher shook his head and said, "I don't feel bitter. Every day is new and very happy." The old man said, "A new day has new troubles, so don't you have troubles?"

The philosopher responded with a smile: "Of course not. I mean, you don’t have to be sad for too long when you encounter bad things. Even if you are very sad that day, let these negative emotions end with the end of the day; similarly, encounter good things. You don’t have to keep thinking about it. Even if you are particularly happy, you have to calm down and live your life well."

Life has all kinds of tastes, and life needs to face it.

Instead of entangled in the past and anxious about the future, it is better to fight for the present. Years are a journey that goes back and forth, and everything along the way is scenery. Every life you experience is "right time".

There will always be many unsatisfactory things in life, many losses, and many envy.

You envy my freedom, I envy your stability; you envy my work leisurely, I envy you full of energy; you envy my wealth and wealth, I envy your family reunion.

People are always envious of each other and feel that others are better off than themselves.

There is a video blogger who makes a living by catching sea fishing and has three children who are going to school. His daily routine is to go out to sea and collect nets with his wife.

Many times, because of the tide, the couple went out to collect the net at 3 o'clock in the morning until dawn. At 7 o'clock in the morning, before I had time to eat breakfast, I had to carry the fish and shrimp I caught to the market to sell, and then go home to send the children to school after the sale. Day after day, it's very hard. To

Someone asked him, why didn't he go out to work? Like him, the income from fishing in the sea every day is not high and unstable.

He replied: "I have gone out to work before, but I feel very heavy after leaving my family and children. So I chose to go fishing and be with my family every day. It is also happy to work hard."

All things in life have their own joys and sorrows. We always like to look up to the lives of others, but we often overlook the happiness around ourselves.

So, let's start now, don't indulge in fantasy, don't disturb yourself, study steadily, and live a good life. Be a kind, brave, free and easy person, forget the old anxiety and embrace the new happiness.