A few unusual sexual proclivities

People who seem perfectly normal can have incredibly strange sexual behaviors. Because of the privacy involved, they tend not to expose their special "hobby" to acquaintances, friends, and even family, and only when they feel particularly distressed, will they seek help from a psychologist or sexual medicine specialist.

A Yong, 26, confused his wife when he barely managed to have sex and never had an orgasm. However, when they were married recently, A Yong made a strange request, asking his wife to squeeze his nose hard. When he felt particularly painful, he would ejaculate and get great pleasure.

Reason: When A Yong was young, his parents were not in love with each other, and the family lacked warmth. When he was 13 years old, he began to masturbate. After that, he felt low sexual function. Once he was ill in hospital, taking medicine and giving injections felt very hard, just a beautiful nurse to take care of him, gradually he had a good impression on the nurse. Once he did not take medicine, the nurse was very angry, pinched his nose, and poured the medicine down, at that time he felt very excited, and immediately ejaculate. The experience was so profound that from then on, he liked to be held by his nose and stimulated to orgasm.

Comments: in general, a lot of couples during sex have slight abuse and torture, often in orgasm, will appear complacent, such as biting, kneading, grasp, because mild pain can enhance sexual pleasure, and sexual abuse addiction patients don't pay close attention to the process of sexual intercourse, sexual excitement, care about before applying. This quirk is not something you are born with, but something you acquire by accident, and once a habit is formed, it is hard to correct. In some movies and TV shows, we can see the situation of sexual abuse, such as being tied up, wearing ankle chains and shackles, and even needing whips to get sexual satisfaction. In fact, few people have such a need in real life, which is exaggerated to a certain extent.

Sexual sadomasochism IS IN the ADULT GOODS MARKET, once saw leather whips, bracelet anklets, and the sales side is called "sex toys". Although THIS KIND OF PRODUCT IS NOT MUCH, STILL SOMEONE BUYS, THIS EXPLANATION IS IN SEXUAL LIFE TO INCREASE FRESH FEELING AND EXCITANT WILL STIMULATE SEXUAL EXCITEMENT AND ORGASMS THROUGH THE FLESH THAT IS OPPOSITE SEXUAL PARTNER, STILL THE INTEREST OF A KIND OF SEXUAL LIFE.

Reason: In real life, few sadomasochists would seek medical advice. Most of what we know about sadomasochism is obtained from the stories and plots in movies and television works. Most of them are nymphomaniacs, serial killers, who abuse the opposite sex physically, emotionally, and, of course, sexually.

Comments: THE PURPOSE OF USING SEX TOYS AND SADomASochism is different, the former is mainly to achieve the purpose of flirting, and sadomasochism is mainly abuse, whipping, or hurting the skin of the opposite sex to make it produce pain so as to obtain sexual satisfaction of a kind of behavior. Usually, such people have suffered emotional trauma, such as lovelorn, psychological more or less abnormal, and certain personality disorders. Subconsciously, they have revenge against the opposite sex. For example, in some Cowhand shops, some emotionally frustrated female customers usually commit sexual abuse on them.

I once received a letter from a reader in which the father, in an almost pleading tone, asked for help for his child. In their 14-year-old son's room, the parents found a large quantity of women's underwear neatly folded in a locked drawer and in a biscuit tin under the bed. These undergarments give off a variety of smelly, mostly semi-new, because it is secretly found these "secrets" of the child, afraid to hurt the child's self-esteem, dare not openly ask the reason, and worried that such development will go on, the child will go astray. Therefore, the parents are very distressed and anxious.

Reason: The 14-year-old had been away from his parents, who were working in another province, leaving the child at his uncle's home. Usually, he is introverted and seldom talks to his family. He goes to a private school and only comes home once a week. Although their academic performance is average, also won't make trouble. Recently, the child has become thinner obviously. After coming home, he immediately goes into the room. Even the room is not cleaned, and others are not allowed to enter his room without permission. On a visit to his hometown, his parents sneaked into the room and found some posters of naked women and a lot of women's underwear.

Comment: FETISH GREAT MAJORITY HAPPENS IN MALE YOUTH, BIG MIDDLE SCHOOL, OCCURRENCE THIS KIND OF CIRCUMSTANCE IS MORE CONCERNED WITH ITS GROWTH ENVIRONMENT, BECAUSE OF LACK OF FATHER LOVE, SO LESS HOW MUCH MASCULINITY. More an introverted personality, is a shy and timid guy, and more ashamed to associate with women, some of inferior, the normal way to get the favor of women, but the heart and sexual impulse, so he can move objects, such as the shift from women to women's personal clothing, hair and so on, these items tend to produce sexual fantasy masturbation.

Bottom LINE: These unusual kinds of sex were previously called "perversions" and were considered dirty, dirty, disgusting, and shady, so they were stigmatized in society. With the development of society, these behaviors are now considered "sexual deviance", professional books do not define this kind of behavior as sexual deviance, and even homosexuality has been removed from the category of mental illness. Although people have become more tolerant, they should still seek the help of psychological doctors and solve their "heart problems" through therapy.