The Minion’s Awakening

Bullies aren’t just spoiled brats or a-hole teenagers in high school. They exist among adults too, both women and men.Often, they’re miserable people, unhappy and discontented with their own lives.

You probably know the type. It’s their way or the highway. If they hate someone, you’re expected to hate them too. You’re supposed to bow your head like a minion and follow their lead. Otherwise, you won’t be accepted into their circle.

That circle is like a merry-go-round, spinning endlessly with no finish line. You have to keep following, right?You have no right to complain, even if you feel dizzy or sick from their disgusting arrogance and offensive rhetoric.

These people love to be in control. Like cult leaders, they demand your loyalty. Whatever they do, you must agree.When they joke, gossip, or talk, you’re expected to nod and nod again, or you won’t get your “reward.” You’ll be expelled from their circus of clowns.

They think the world revolves around them. No one else is perfect—except them. Their opinions are always right, their commands as if issued by a Queen of the Galaxy.

When you tell stories, you have to be careful not to mention your happiness, success, or accomplishments. You might offend Her Majesty. Make her feel inferior, and you’ll face her wrath.

So, you laugh at her offensive jokes, pretending she’s funny, pretending you admire her. She’s the best thing in the universe, right? Even when she spreads lies and rumors, you remain silent like a lamb.

When she’s angry, you’re supposed to be angry too. When she’s sad, scared, rude, loud—even when she farts—you’re expected to follow like a loyal minion. And don’t dare wear fancy clothes or makeup, because she’ll make nasty comments behind your back.

It feels like being trapped in a stinking cage with hyenas, waiting for them to devour you. Their narcissistic personality eventually drains your soul. Their manipulative behavior victimizes everyone around , and you’re just one of many.

By the time you realize what’s happening, it’s too late. You weren’t being kind—you were just an idiot. A minion who accepted gaslighting, backstabbing, and bullying.

Why? Because you were desperate to be accepted, too emotionally attached to someone who didn’t actually give a damn about you.

Then one day, it hits you like a thunderbolt. “I’m a freaking idiot,” you tell yourself. You’re done kissing ass. You realize you don’t need in your life.

Life is much better without her. The only problem was, I were an idiot all along.

Life is too precious to be wasted on abusive and manipulative friendships. You deserve better.

Here are some tips for avoiding toxic people and cultivating healthy relationships:

1. Seek like-minded individuals: Choose friends who share your values, interests, and passions, and who respect your boundaries and need for self-preservation.

2. Protect your personal information: Refrain from sharing intimate secrets with friends; unfortunately, they may use them against you.

3. Cultivate assertiveness: Communicate clearly that you are a kind person, but not easily taken advantage of.

4. Say no to gossip: Avoid engaging in rumors or negative talk about others.

5. Steer clear of groupthink: Be cautious of friends who exhibit a "pack mentality" and may pressure you to conform.

6. Recognize narcissistic tendencies: Look out for friends who display patterns of self-centeredness and a lack of empathy.

7. Develop fulfilling hobbies: Engage in activities that bring you joy and personal satisfaction, reducing your reliance on others for entertainment and companionship.

By following these guidelines, you'll be better equipped to foster relationships that enrich your life and protect your well-being. Remember, you have the power to create a social circle that uplifts and supports you.