The best advice (How I wish you do this, in your twenty's).



Number one: master your money and invest early. When you're young, it's easy to spend your money on short-term pleasures. But what would really set you on a faster path to wealth is learning how to manage your finances well. Start investing as soon as possible, even if it's small amounts. Time in the market is often more important than timing the market.

Number two: Focus on building relationships, not just skills. The people you meet along the way can become your greatest assets. Surround yourself with people who challenge you, motivate you, and push you to think bigger. The network you build will often open doors that skills alone cannot.

Number three: Take calculated risks. When you're young, you have the most time and flexibility to take risks. Don’t be reckless, but don’t be afraid to go for opportunities that others might hesitate to pursue. Your 20s are the perfect time to experiment and learn from your mistakes.

Number three: Don't wait for the "perfect" time. So many people wait for the stars to align before taking action. The truth is, there’s never a perfect time. You can always improve things along the way, but you won’t get anywhere without taking that first step. Start now, refine later.

Number four: take care of your body – The analogy to a million thoroughbred horse is striking; your body is your most valuable asset. Investing in your health not only provides energy, focus, and stamina but gives you the ability to chase your dreams. It’s true that when we feel sick or exhausted, our ambitions narrow down to just wanting to feel better. But when we prioritize health, we unlock boundless potential.

Number five:surround yourself with people who want more for you – It’s easy to get bogged down by those who drain you, those who take without giving. But the shift you made when you started surrounding yourself with people who pushed you to do bigger things and supported your growth? That’s a game changer. Having people around who genuinely care about your success, who cheer you on, makes all the difference in motivation and fulfillment.

Number six: being humble, suggests a balance between confidence and service. It's about not diminishing your self-worth but putting others first and acting with purpose. Humility doesn't mean shrinking yourself, but rather focusing on how your actions can serve others in a way that lifts everyone.

Number seven: getting tested when leveling up, is a powerful reminder that challenges often arise when we're on the verge of growth. Those moments of difficulty are opportunities to prove to ourselves that we have the strength and resilience to handle whatever comes our way. It’s like the universe (or God, as you said) is giving us the chance to rise above and reach the next level.

Number eight: tell people how to treat you. Communicate your expectations clearly, people will treat you based on what they perceive is acceptable. It’s important to set the tone for how you want to be treated in all interactions—whether personal or professional. When you establish your boundaries and communicate them effectively, you show others that you value yourself and expect the same in return. This not only protects your time and energy but also helps build healthy, respectful relationships. If you don’t speak up for yourself, no one will. Teach people how to respect your time, your space, and your values, and the right ones will respond positively.

Number nine:t’s powerful to realize that sometimes the moment you’re looking for a sign is actually the sign itself. When you’re at rock bottom, that’s often when you’re closest to growth and transformation. You don’t always need a neon sign or a clear message from the universe; the fact that you're searching for direction, or reaching out for help, is in itself an indication that you’re ready for change. Acknowledging the need for something different and choosing to move forward is the real sign. Don’t wait for perfect conditions or clarity—sometimes, the act of seeking is the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for.

Number ten: The idea that our challenges and setbacks are what shape us into who we are today is so true. Every hardship we face strengthens us, even when it feels like we're at our lowest. And the second point about wanting nothing is really insightful too—when you stop chasing after things, and instead focus on your own growth and self-worth, that's when everything you want comes to you naturally. It’s like embracing the flow of life rather than trying to force things. Have you experienced this shift yourself?

Number eleven: seeking advice only from people who have achieved what you want is crucial. It helps avoid misinformation and ensures that you're getting advice that's rooted in real experience, not just theory.

Number twelve : learn saying “no” is also empowering. It's important to protect your time and energy so you can focus on what truly matters to you.

Number thirteen:emphasizes the difference between reading and truly studying. Comprehending and applying knowledge is far more valuable than just passing through the pages.

The first one is all about prioritizing your own well-being and growth first so that you can genuinely support others. If you're constantly distracted by other people's issues, you're not able to fully show up when people truly need your help. It's a reminder that self-care, focus, and preparation are key to being able to serve others effectively in the long run.

The second insight encourages seeking out challenges. The bigger the problems you’re willing to tackle, the bigger the opportunities and growth you'll experience. Rather than avoiding difficulties, look for ways to solve more complex issues, which will push you forward and expand your potential.

Number 14: And the fourteenth is about change. To truly evolve and reach new levels in your life, you have to be willing to let go of old habits and ways of thinking that no longer serve you. Holding onto what's familiar can keep you stuck in the past, preventing progress.

Number 15: Stay away from drama and gossip allowing yourself to focus on growth, and it’s great advice to avoid making decisions when fear is clouding your judgment. Fear can trick you into thinking you're stuck or that it's too late to change, but it's never the case. Every moment is a fresh start, and it's encouraging to think that even at any age, the path to change is always available.

Do you find these thoughts resonate with you right now, or are you focusing on a particular area of growth in your life

Do these principles resonate with you? How do you feel they’ve impacted your life or how you'd like them to?

What would you add to the list if you were to give advice to your younger self?