Never get to know someone from someone else's mouth

01

You never know how many versions of you are being told by others, and you never know what others have said to undermine you in order to defend themselves, and you never know how to stop unrealistic gossip. And what you can do is ignore it, there is no need to explain and clarify, people who understand you will always believe you. My favorite sentence: If you are not blind, don't know me from other people's mouth!

02

The best state of life is to know how to respect, regardless of other people's business, do not show their superiority, and do not show love. The more you grow up, the more you learn to hold back, the world is not your own existence. Be silent, do not speak ill of others, do yourself well. Not deep, just simple. You don't live just to be liked, or to show off what you have, nobody cares, more people are watching the joke. As you become better, your environment will also improve.

03

From today on, do yourself a favor, no longer bear the eyes outside the body, do not care about the evaluation of others, live for yourself. Starting today, do yourself a favor, do the things you love, love the people closest to you, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, no longer bind the emotional space, let yourself live easier.

04

A lot of things that you think are big, when you are eager to talk to others, it is also a small matter in the eyes of others, and he should at most be painless. Because he's not you, he can't feel the intensity of your emotions. Until one day, you don't need to mention it to anyone, you've saved yourself. No one in the world can really help you except yourself.

05

We always walk into love with a mask, always want to show their most superior side, you have to accept a person, not only accept his superiority, but see his ordinary ordinary but still to love. The truth is often: as we walk, we feel that the other person has changed, in fact, we have not changed, we just walk into the most authentic place of the other person, and then lose ourselves.

06

I hold you, you are the cup, I let go, you are the glass. Whether it is a lover or a friend, cherish the people who are by your side every time you are sad or sad. Cherish people who often joke with you, that you must have a certain weight in this person's heart. Cherish the person who is the first to notice when you are in a bad mood.

07

What is big today will be small tomorrow; The big thing this year, next year is the story; What is great in this life is a legend in the next life. Life is like a road, all the way hard, all the way scenery. What you see is the state of your life. Always see people who are better than you, that you are going uphill; Seeing people who are inferior to you is a sign that you are going downhill. It's better to change than to complain.

08

Going to zero is a positive attitude. All the success or failure relative to the previous second is a kind of past. The past can support the future, but it can not replace tomorrow. Learning to zero is a positive awareness of the future. Think of waking up every day as a new birth, and use the moments before sleep with the attitude of a baby learning to walk. Zero, so that the bad does not affect the future, so that the good does not confuse the present.

09

One day, you will meet the right person: the so-called happiness, has always come naturally. It can not be predicted, there is no way to calculate, the only thing you can do is to believe before you meet, and enjoy silently after you meet. Would rather wait with the heart of expectation, but also do not want to compromise on the years, because I believe that happiness may be late, but not absent. When no one coax me to cry, I learned to be strong; Afraid of no one to accompany, I learned to be brave; When no one asked, I learned to bear; Tired when no one can rely on, I learned to stand on my own. In this way I found myself, I was very good! What is more valuable is that in the world, I only have one, only one me!