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Confidence is Key: How to Be Confident and Efficient

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By Keeley TanPublished 3 years ago 4 min read
Confidence is Key: How to Be Confident and Efficient
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If you are anything like me, you’ve probably encountered moments where you felt like giving up on life or questioning your worth. These scenarios can be especially prevalent when we feel as though we lack self-confidence. This is a common emotion for many of us, but what causes it? And how can we combat it? Self-confidence is an interesting trait. It manifests itself in different ways for different people, but most of us experience some level of insecurity at some point in our lives. We might feel insecure about our physical appearance, our social skills, or even the things that we don’t outwardly show to others. However, self-confidence is not something to dread; it’s something that we should embrace and work towards improving. Here are some ways you can start feeling more confident right now:

Learn to Say Yes to Things Uncomfortable to You

This may sound a bit weird, but a lot of people have a hard time saying yes to things that are easy for them. If you don’t have a tendency to be a “go-go-go” type of person, you may overthink saying “yes.”

You might think that you need to take a day to rest and recharge before you can take on a new challenge. This isn’t the case at all. You can use the rest of the day to pursue something new, whether it’s joining a club or working on your project. Remind yourself that you can always take a break if you need to.

Most people struggle with the idea of standing up for themselves, but it’s something that you must do every day. We all have the power to say “yes” and “no” to things in our lives, but a lot of us feel self-conscious about doing so. Why? Because we might feel as though saying “no” to certain things negatively affects our social life or our work. However, there are always going to be things in life that are uncomfortable to you.

When it comes to uncomfortable situations, what you do before you walk into the conversation is just as important as what you say. Being self-confident doesn’t mean that you must always agree to every person or thing that comes your way. Instead, learn to assert yourself and say “no” when you need to. You might feel as though you’re being rude or impolite, but often times you’re saving other people’s feelings and your own time.

Exercise Regularly

Exercise is one of the best ways to boost your confidence. It’s also a great way to meet new people and make new connections that may be beneficial to your professional life. Exercise has been proven to reduce anxiety, boost your mood, reduce stress, and improve concentration.

Well, if there’s one thing that we can all agree on, it’s that a healthy body leads to a healthy mind. It’s something that you can do anywhere and at any time, and it doesn’t have to be complicated or intense.

When you start exercising, you’ll be surprised by how much more confident you feel. You don’t have to run a mile or use a complicated workout regimen to feel confident. Even doing push-ups or walking around the block can have a positive effect.

Go for a walk around the block, do some push-ups, or some yoga poses; find something that you love and are willing to stick with. While you should never feel pressured to exercise, it’s something that you can make a daily part of your life.

It’s not just something that will happen if you wait for the perfect time or day. It’s something that you must take action on, and the best way to do that is through regular exercise.

Set Goals and Track Your Progress

This might sound like a really basic tip, but it’s actually a huge step towards becoming more self-confident. Human beings are creatures of routine and habit, and setting short-term goals can help you to keep track of your progress and help you to stay focused. Setting goals can be a great way to boost your confidence.

Think about what type of person you want to be, and then set goals that help you get there. Tracking your progress can help you keep focused on the long-term goals that you want to reach.

Keeping a journal, writing down your goals, and setting small milestones for yourself can also be a helpful way to keep yourself accountable. When you set goals for yourself, you’re taking the chance to examine your own strengths and weaknesses.

When you do this, you’re able to find out what you’re good at and what you need to work on. It may seem like a small thing, but being honest with yourself and noting your progress can help you boost your confidence.

Conclusion

Ultimately, confidence comes from within. You can work towards boosting your confidence by being more open to new experiences, being friendly to others, and using exercise to feel more confident in your own skin.

There are a lot of emotions that are out of our control, and self-confidence is one of them. It’s natural to feel insecure or anxious when you don’t feel confident in yourself.

However, it’s important to note that these emotions are not permanent, and they can be overcome with the right mindset and practice. The best way to start feeling more confident is by taking small steps towards improving your self-esteem.

You can start by learning how to say “no” to things that you don’t want to do and by regularly exercising. Additionally, you can set short-term goals and track your progress. These small changes can go a long way in helping you to feel more comfortable with yourself.

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About the Creator

Keeley Tan

Chartered Accountant (Singapore). I write about personal finance, personal development, and about my financial journey.

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