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Lead Yourself Toward Coveted Goals

An important thing to understand about goals and achievements

By Sariel Ben AvivPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
Lead Yourself Toward Coveted Goals
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Knowing how to lead yourself often symbolizes your ability to lead others — in the sense of personal experience. — And the best way to lead yourself towards desired results is to be focused on the benefits that there are in the desired results.

Another option to lead yourself toward coveted goals will include identifying a disadvantage — to the point that it evokes a desire to correct it.

These two situations appear in the timeline in two ways — before and after. — that is, a situation that is either an existing situation that you want to fix, or that is a potential situation that you want to achieve.

In order to know which of the ways is more suitable for the situation, one must notice the level of trust that exists around each of these ways.

An important thing to understand about goals

A basic rule for success is to think about the end first!

It does not make sense to produce a product and look for who will buy it. The most logical thing is to look for demand and offer supply. — And this is one example of thinking about the end first.

That way actions are more defined, and in the timeline a more defined goals and more defined actions is an unparalleled bless.

To be clearer, I will say that it is a process of learning and paying attention to the inwardness of things down to the root level.

To be determined, one will need a certain level of inner peace with what he is thinking of doing. That inner peace stems not only from the business plan, but first and foremost from an inner study as an individual.

When you define your goals more clearly you have a stronger reality, which allows you to achieve things easily.

You need to understand that the level of difficulty or ease is a relative and subjective, so when you are more grounded in your goal it comes to you more easily. But this is not the only reason for a clearer definition of goals, but the secondary one.

The more important reason for setting goals more clearly is authenticity!

Success must be authentic, otherwise it will be difficult to define it as success.

There are two sides to achievement

The revealed side, and the hidden side.

Achievements on its superficial side can be measured using certain metrics, such as how much you earned this year, how expensive the car you bought recently, or even how many children you gave birth to, and so on.

But the more spiritual side of attainment is revealed only if man can see himself as empty and recognizes his perpetual need for satisfaction.

This is the complete opposite of the temporary sense of security that visual or superficial achievements can give us.

Our ability to recognize our constant need for salvation drains us over the years from the superficial side and thus we can feel more free, which is in fact the true achievement of wealth, prestige, etc.

We are free from the need to drink water when we drink water. We are free from the need for wealth once we have wealth, but then we must also be free from the need to fill our own emptiness …

Usually older people understand the attachment to the main essence more. But for the young people among us the way to do that is to first understand this concept of achievement.

We need to learn to enjoy the emptiness as well.

Compassion Is Needed

When we identify a flaw in the reality around us, it indicates that we also identify incorrect thinking.

Compassion is needed to use the right proportions to fill in the blanks and correct a situation that needs fixing.

Some people tend to be critical of imperfection, but this is the wrong way because it usually concentrates on criticism rather than the desire to improve the situation.

Compassion-based line of thought sweetens criticism and turns it into a new wholeness based on the right values.

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About the Creator

Sariel Ben Aviv

I write about what matters.

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