If You Are Unhappy with Life - Change Your Attitude
Not The People
As a rule, you agree with what you consider to be fair, acceptable, and safe. You are obsessed with staying where you are afraid to take the smallest step forward and find yourself in an unfamiliar environment without the people, things, and places you're used to.
The thought of moving forward is frightening because it seems to you that you are not able to continue living, leaving something in the past. As a result, you are sacrificing your life and your happiness just to stay put.
If you're not happy, move on. Because if you were destined to be in one place, then you would have roots instead of feet.
If you're not happy with your job, leave.
If you feel that you are not developing, you are not studying, your productivity is declining and you are counting the hours until the end of the working day, then it is time to leave. If you constantly believe that your current job is exhausting you psychologically, physically, and emotionally, change it. If you stay in the job only because it allows you to pay your bills, because there you can be "promoted" and you can call yourself "successful" and "happier", then this is wrong.
Your happiness does not depend on your success. The other way around. And if it seems like you can explore new opportunities, new places, and new things that can enrich your soul and contribute to your personal growth, go ahead! If it's worth your while, it's worth a try.
It's never too late to try. Whatever the outcome, it is always an experience. Remember that any experience brings valuable lessons that you would not otherwise be able to learn.
If you are upset with the people around you, stay away from them.
If you feel that they no longer have a positive effect on you and you do not grow close to them, leave. However, your departure does not necessarily mean burning all the bridges or forgetting about them forever. It's just that you've finally started moving forward. The time we spent together was impressive. You have received many lessons and incentives, but now that I can offer you nothing and all I do is simply trap you into mediocrity, you have probably come to say "thank you" and "see you later".
Finally, you realize that you have to live your life without them.
If you're not happy with your relationship, break it off.
Your partner is not the only person on the planet. Romantic relationships are more than just kisses, dates, hugs, and tearful letters. They, like any other vital connection, need to become mature with you.
A romantic relationship should encourage you to flourish and develop every aspect of your personality. Rejoice every morning and do not doubt and be disappointed with your burden. If your partner becomes a constant source of headaches and toxicity, say goodbye. You don't have to bear this burden.
Your soulmate should be the person who will encourage you to be better, motivate you, and reveal to the whole world the realm of your greatness. Keep that in mind. Who knows, maybe shortly you will meet someone who will make your soul even richer.
If you don't like your city, change it.
Don't cling to comfort and security zones. A familiar environment is good, but if it becomes too familiar, a problem arises. A little risk and uncertainty can make a big difference. If you live in your city just because of your sense of security, because you lived in it too long to freely call it "home" or simply because it is "convenient", then you should reconsider your decision.
Comfort can be much worse than risk. You stopped striving for beautiful things when you started to feel comfortable. Remember, big things are waiting for you outside your comfort zone. So pack your bags, leave the city and choose another one for yourself. Go on a journey to nowhere.
Start from the beginning. Find for yourself a place that you will be delighted to visit and where you may have the desire to stay. The time has come. And the house is always the place where your happiness lies.
If you don't like the way of your life, come back as soon as possible.
On which side of your life path would you be now - study at a university, choose a job or a business sector - if something does not suit you, take a break and review the correctness of the chosen direction.
If you don't like the current state, go the other way. Believe me, you don't want to waste years, effort, and money on something you've never liked. It will only teach you how to handle things.
Eventually, the lack of enthusiasm will lead to exhaustion. So it doesn't matter if you graduate next year, it's better to decide for yourself now if you need to until you're confined to an office chair with a bunch of jobs you hate that you not only don't understand but which does not add to your satisfaction in life.
If you spend years of precious time doing business that you don't enjoy, leave. If you don't see yourself in this position in the future, then what's the point of staying in it? There is no right time to leave. You have to leave whenever you want. when you are unhappy. Now.
Choose a new path, diversity, and development for you. Wherever you are now, come back if you feel unhappy. Right, left - whatever direction you take, as long as it makes you happy and you don't get lost.
If you are not comfortable with the way you see your life, change your mind.
Look at life from a different angle and change your attitude toward it. Live life from scratch. Experiences and constant analysis of what is happening will not change anything. As the saying goes, don't go for less than your full potential.
The only thing that is truly in your power is to change your view of the world and see life in all its glory. Stop evaluating problems or difficulties. Life is Beautiful.
If you're not happy with your current situation, go ahead. Instead of fear and a thorough analysis of every decision you have to make, you just have to trust your inner instinct. Sometimes risk and uncertainty lead to amazing results. And you don't have to constantly weigh the pros and cons, because sometimes the only thing that matters is happiness, a passion for life, and a thirst to make your heart happy.
You don't need to know what your next step will be. Sometimes all you need to do is take the first step, which is to move.

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