For your own good, it is a kind of thought kidnapping

After a man cheated and was caught by his wife, he said this:

I cheated for your own good, you see, if I don’t cheat, I’ll probably go to whoring prostitutes, or have a one-night stand, it’s so unsafe, what if I get sick and infect you, it’s better to have such a fixed Lover, safe and easy.

The wife was stunned and speechless.

Viewers were also indignant, regretting that his wife had met the best of scumbags, and criticized the man for his shameless remarks.

This shocking remark is indeed a bastard and shameless!

In life, there are many people who do "bad things" in the name of "for your own good".

I am good for you, so I am above your thoughts and point fingers at you;

I am good for you, so you can't go against my will, otherwise you don't know what to do;

I am for your own good, so I will come to plan your life, bind your hands and feet, make you immobile, and let me dictate;

I am for your own good, so you can only obey me and don't dare to resist, otherwise you will be ungrateful.

For your own good, it is a kind of ideological kidnapping.

This kind of thinking appears in the education of parents to their children, in the care of the partner for the other half, in the teaching of the elderly to the young, and in all kinds of occasions where there is no reason to say anything.

This form of "for your own good" can still be understood as: responsibility and deep love.

Then, "for your own good" on the grounds of derailment is to confuse black and white, to make rhetoric, to confuse right and wrong, and to be extremely shameless.

According to this man's divine logic, cheating is justifiable and reasonable, just as common as eating and sleeping.

Most of the men who say this have two kinds of psychology and purpose.

First: Rationalize cheating

After cheating, men began to find various excuses, nothing more than to relieve their psychological guilt, put smoke bombs on their wives, and rationalize their behavior.

Listing the various benefits of cheating seems to be deliberate, but in fact it is extremely naive.

The essence of cheating is being unfaithful to oneself, and it cannot destroy anyone except you.

If you find your scum, your wife will break up with you in a big way;

If you find your scum, your colleagues will keep your distance from you;

Found your scum, it's a big deal for friends to go their separate ways with you.

And what you really hurt is actually yourself.

A cheating man died suddenly in the middle of the night while sleeping.

According to his friends, since he cheated on him, he has been under a lot of psychological pressure. Every day he thinks about how to cheat on both sides and how to please both sides.

In the end, no one accepted his love. The mistress thought he was disloyal, and his wife scolded him for being disloyal.

In the end, he overthinked and was crushed by derailment.

Second: Avoid the responsibility after cheating

A "for your own good" is ready to evade all responsibility.

There are two types of cheating men.

One is the "strong type": I just cheated, I dared to act, I fell in love with someone else, I have no love for you anymore...

And more of the "avoidance type": I still love you, but I can't let go of her, you give me some time, and I will find a way to deal with it.

However, the first class is one year, two years, or even ten or eight years, and the situation of three people has been maintained.

And the most common affliction card played by such men is "for your own good", and the most common excuse card is "because of you".

It's all because of your badness that I cheated. I didn't go to the lady, I didn't go to a one-night stand, it was already a blessing. You should be grateful to Dade, because I'm doing it for your own good.

Fuck it!

If it's really good for her, you won't cheat!

If it's really good for her, you won't lie!

If it's really good for her, you won't run away!

If it is really good for her, you will not lose faith!

The biggest sadness of a man is that the lies weaved clearly have revealed flaws, but they are lucky to think that no one else can see through!

The greatest sorrow of a woman is that she has clearly debunked these lies, but she has an almost obsessive wishful thinking about the makers of the lies!

When love comes, please embrace with all your heart, and when love leaves, please embrace yourself deeply.

In marriage, you should also do: not to be happy with things, not to be sad about yourself.

Don't be overjoyed by a man's occasional diligence, and don't blame others for his misfortune.

Whether you love me or not, I am here, neither sad nor happy;

Whether you hurt me or not, I am here, neither humble nor arrogant;

Whether you think of me or not, I am here, never leaving or abandoning, growing in silence.

The world kisses me with pain, but I dance in return; the world kisses me with pain, but I repay it with songs.