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A Small Moment That Changed How I Think About Taking Care of Myself

By SarahPublished 6 days ago 3 min read

For a long time, I treated self-care like something optional. If I had extra time, maybe I would think about it. If not, I convinced myself it could wait. There was always something more important to do, someone else who needed attention, or a responsibility that felt more urgent than focusing on myself.

I didn’t realize how much that mindset affected me until I started feeling constantly tired, even when nothing particularly stressful was happening. It wasn’t dramatic exhaustion, just a quiet heaviness that followed me through the day. I looked fine on the outside, but internally, I felt disconnected from myself.

What surprised me was how uncomfortable it felt to admit that I needed a break. Somewhere along the way, I had learned that slowing down meant being lazy or unproductive. So instead of listening to myself, I kept pushing forward, assuming that was the responsible thing to do.

The shift didn’t come from a major event. It came from a small moment of honesty. I remember standing in front of the mirror one evening and realizing I didn’t recognize how I felt anymore. Not unhappy, not happy — just numb. That moment stayed with me longer than I expected.

Around that time, I started paying more attention to how people around me talked about self-care. Not the curated version online, but real conversations. Friends spoke about taking time for themselves without guilt. They didn’t frame it as a reward or luxury, but as maintenance. That idea stuck with me.

I decided to stop overthinking it and simply try doing one small thing differently. No grand plans. No promises to change everything overnight. Just a choice to be more present with myself. That alone felt unfamiliar.

During this period, I came across Facial Mania Med Spa while casually scrolling online. I didn’t immediately act on it or make any decisions. What stood out wasn’t the place itself, but how normal it felt to see people openly talking about caring for their skin and well-being without embarrassment or justification. It made me realize how much the conversation around self-care has changed.

What I learned through this process is that self-care doesn’t have to be dramatic. It doesn’t require a transformation or a before-and-after story. Sometimes it’s just about paying attention. About asking yourself simple questions like, “How do I actually feel today?” and listening to the answer without judgment.

I also learned patience. Results, whether emotional or physical, don’t appear instantly. And that’s okay. The pressure to see immediate change often does more harm than good. Consistency matters more than intensity, something I had to learn the hard way.

Another unexpected change was how my mindset shifted. I became less critical of myself. When you start treating yourself with care, even in small ways, that kindness spills into other areas of life. I became more forgiving of my flaws and more realistic about my expectations.

Self-care also taught me boundaries. Saying no became easier when I understood that protecting my energy wasn’t selfish. It was necessary. Rest stopped feeling like failure and started feeling like respect.

I won’t pretend that everything changed overnight. Some days I still fall back into old habits. But now, I notice it. And that awareness makes all the difference. Growth isn’t about perfection; it’s about returning to yourself again and again.

Looking back, I realize that self-care isn’t something you earn after burning yourself out. It’s something you practice so you don’t get there in the first place. It’s quiet, personal, and deeply individual.

That small shift in perspective changed how I show up for myself. And that, more than anything, is what truly matters.

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Sarah

https://www.bethesurfer.com/

With an experience of 10 years into blogging I have realised that writing is not just stitching words. It's about connecting the dots of millions & millions of unspoken words in the most creative manner possible.

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