Do you want to know how I am feeling?

I’m delighted to see your interest in knowing how I am. Well, the answer is yes—I’m doing great, and I hope the same for you. Life has its ups and downs, but overall, I believe we are all doing well in our own spaces, don’t you think? Some of you might be fully aware that you’re doing just fine, but for others, there might be a cloud of doubt. If you’re among those who are unsure of how they are doing, I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to worry so much.

There’s a beautiful concept called "Bollant," which simply means to be good and do good. It’s a guiding principle that reflects the natural law of the universe: what you give is what you get. This idea isn’t new; it’s deeply rooted in our cultural and spiritual traditions. You’ve probably heard elders say, “Karma ka phal zaroor milta hai.” This is the essence of Bollant—your actions, whether good or bad, come back to you.

The Farmer’s Lesson: Life Mirrors Your Actions

Let’s take a moment to think about a farmer. Have you ever watched a farmer planting seeds in his field? He carefully selects the seeds, knowing that the quality of the crop depends entirely on what he sows. If he plants wheat, he will harvest wheat; if he plants rice, he will harvest rice. It’s a simple equation—what you sow is what you reap.

This principle applies to our lives as well. Every action we take is like planting a seed. The words we speak, the deeds we perform, the thoughts we nurture—all of these are seeds we plant in the fertile soil of the universe. And just like the farmer who waits for his crop to grow, we must be patient for our actions to yield results.

Now, you might wonder, “What if I’ve been planting good seeds, but the results aren’t as expected? Why do I still face challenges and difficulties?” This is a question that has troubled many, but the answer lies in understanding the broader picture of life.

The Role of Patience and Faith

Sometimes, life tests our patience. It may seem unfair, but these challenges are an essential part of our growth. Just as a seed takes time to germinate, grow, and finally bear fruit, our good deeds also take time to manifest their rewards. During this waiting period, it’s easy to feel disheartened or doubt whether our efforts will ever pay off.

But here’s where faith comes into play. Faith in the fact that the universe is just, that every action has a consequence, and that time is the best healer. You see, God or the universe, however you perceive it, is always watching. Nothing goes unnoticed, and no good deed goes unrewarded. Sometimes the results are immediate, but at other times, they take longer to appear. And that’s okay.

Have you ever seen a tree laden with fruits? It didn’t grow overnight. It took years of nurturing, watering, and care. Similarly, the fruits of our actions may take time to ripen. We just need to trust the process and keep doing good, knowing that the rewards will come in their due time.

Time: The Greatest Healer

Time is an incredible force. It has the power to heal, to change circumstances, and to bring about transformation. There’s a saying, “Samay se pehle aur kismat se zyada kisi ko kuch nahi milta.” This reminds us that everything in life happens at the right time, neither too early nor too late.

Let’s think about a wall clock for a moment. Have you ever noticed why it’s round? A round clock isn’t just about aesthetics; it carries a profound message. The round shape of a clock symbolizes the cyclical nature of time. It’s a reminder that life moves in circles, and whatever position you are in now, you’ll find yourself back there someday.

When we’re at the peak of our success, it’s easy to become arrogant. We start believing that we are invincible, that we have achieved everything on our own. But the round clock is a gentle reminder—what goes up must come down. Similarly, when we’re in the depths of despair, it’s easy to lose hope. But the clock tells us that this too shall pass, and we’ll rise again.

This cyclical nature of time teaches us two important lessons: humility and resilience. When you’re successful, stay humble. Remember that time can change, and your circumstances can shift. And when you’re down, don’t lose hope. Time will bring you back to where you were, or even better, if you continue to do good.

The Power of Kindness

In our journey through life, kindness is one of the most powerful tools we have. Being kind doesn’t just mean helping others; it also means being compassionate towards ourselves. It’s about treating everyone with respect, understanding that everyone is fighting their own battles.

Kindness is like planting seeds of positivity in the world. When you’re kind to someone, you’re making the world a little better, one small act at a time. These acts of kindness may seem insignificant, but they have a ripple effect. When you help someone, that person is likely to help another, and so on. Before you know it, your single act of kindness has touched countless lives.

But what about those times when your kindness isn’t reciprocated? What if people take advantage of your good nature? These are valid concerns, but remember, kindness isn’t about getting something in return. It’s about doing the right thing because it’s the right thing to do. The universe has its way of balancing things out. Your kindness will come back to you, maybe not from the same person, but in some other form.

Arrogance: The Enemy of Growth

On the flip side, arrogance is something we need to guard against. It’s easy to fall into the trap of arrogance, especially when we’re doing well. Success can be intoxicating, and it can make us forget the journey that brought us there. But arrogance is like planting bad seeds. It leads to negative consequences, not just for others, but for ourselves as well.

Arrogance blinds us to our shortcomings and makes us resistant to feedback. It isolates us from others because nobody likes to be around someone who is full of themselves. In the long run, arrogance can lead to our downfall. That’s why it’s important to stay grounded, no matter how successful we become.

Remember, the round clock on the wall? It’s a constant reminder that today you might be at the top, but tomorrow things can change. Staying humble allows us to keep learning, to keep growing, and to stay connected with those around us.

The Balance of Life

Life is all about balance. Balancing our actions, our thoughts, and our emotions. When we focus on being good and doing good, we bring balance to our lives. This balance helps us navigate through the ups and downs, the highs and lows.

In Indian culture, the concept of “Dharma” plays a crucial role. Dharma is the moral duty or righteousness that each of us must uphold. It’s about doing the right thing, not because of fear of punishment, but because it’s the right thing to do. When we follow our Dharma, we contribute to the balance of the universe.

This balance is what keeps the universe in harmony. Just as a farmer balances the elements of nature to grow a healthy crop, we must balance our actions and intentions to live a fulfilling life.

Embracing Gratitude

Gratitude is another important aspect of life. Being thankful for what we have, instead of focusing on what we lack, brings peace and contentment. When we practice gratitude, we shift our focus from negative to positive. It allows us to appreciate the good things in our lives and to recognize the efforts of others.

Gratitude also reinforces the idea of Bollant. When we’re grateful, we’re more likely to do good because we recognize the good in our own lives. It’s a cycle—gratitude leads to kindness, kindness leads to good actions, and good actions bring more reasons to be grateful.

Conclusion: The Simplicity of Life

In the end, life is very simple. We complicate it with our worries, our doubts, and our fears. But at its core, life is about doing good, being kind, and staying humble. The concept of Bollant teaches us that what we put out into the world comes back to us. So, let’s focus on planting good seeds through our actions, words, and thoughts.

Remember the farmer, the round clock, and the power of kindness. Life will always have its challenges, but with patience, faith, and a commitment to doing good, we can navigate through it with grace and wisdom. After all, what goes around, comes around. So, be good, do good, and trust that everything will be fine.