You don't need to say it, you need to do it!

Living in the society, communication is necessary, so how to communicate, is particularly important. Almost everyone has been in a situation where they have nothing to say, and many people suffer from social phobia. Everyone is independent and individual, and it is not unusual to be able to talk to every stranger.

However, social communication is a necessary skill for everyone. Even if we can't talk freely, we should at least communicate normally, instead of not knowing where to start when we meet strangers, or even dare not talk with them.

I this friend countless times to me about their eloquence is not good, listen to more, I can not help but want to say a few words.

First of all, do not always say that they are not good, that is not good, such as your eloquence is not good, you can completely say that they need to be improved in language expression, and will work more on this aspect. You need to be subtle about your weaknesses and then have a plan to correct them.

Now I really don't like a person who says that he can't do this or that, but does not make a change, or continue to live in his original way. Now that you know your weaknesses, it doesn't matter how many people you talk to if you don't change them.

Are you asking for pity by showing your weakness naked? Not everyone can put up with you, sympathize with you, take care of you, and help you.

Since childhood, I have been a person who does not like to talk too much, and I also try to avoid communicating with others in life. Although aware of their own shortcomings in this respect, but muddle along, also did not take poor speech as a big thing to regard.

Later, because of communication barriers, also missed a lot of opportunities. In a time of regret and regret, feel that they can not go on like this. Speech is the most basic thing in interpersonal communication. We should not give up social interaction because of our cowardice and cowardice. Besides, life is too long to last a lifetime.

So in junior high school, I began to read a lot of books to improve eloquence, expand my knowledge and learn speaking skills. Usually, I pay more attention to my manners, and summarize experience in social interactions again and again. I will pay more attention to the process of the next conversation.

As time goes by, you will no longer be afraid of talking with others, and you will know how to find topics and what to talk about in front of different people.

Now the most afraid of a person is to realize their own shortcomings, but because of laziness, because of the status quo, not to make changes.

A lot of people will think, although I have a problem, but I now this is not OK.

However, many things, you do not take the initiative to challenge it, sooner or later will be passive change.

Everyone is good at something, and everyone is bad at something. It's not about changing, it's about being perfect, being unparalleled. It's about taking the things you're not good at and doing the basics.

You may not be able to quote, but you can communicate normally and are not afraid to communicate. Isn't that a breakthrough?

Standards vary from person to person, do not need to set too high standards for themselves, and then look at the ocean and sigh, haven't made a change before, first to scare yourself.

We need to set appropriate goals, and then through efforts, to achieve the passing grade. If you can do it perfectly, all the better.

In the face of not good at things, or completely give up, convince your heart, to accept the fact.

Or make a change, and persist in your efforts to become the one you want to envy.

Don't complain, and then complain and then don't change.

Have the mindset to accept the reality, but also have the courage to jump out of your comfort zone. Life is long. Be a better version of yourself.