Will steal 3 kinds of lazy

Life is a journey, but also a practice that will steal 3 kinds of laziness, to live more comfortably.

Ear lazy, do not listen to gossip

Everyone has a mouth, all want to "express".

So, if you succeed, will hear the denigration; if you failed, will be despised; if you are proud, to be abused; if you fell, more will be disliked.

In short, whether you are "out of the box" or "make a fool of yourself", or do nothing, someone will come forward to "speak".

That gossip, gossip, is the accusation, is slander, is malicious speculation, is to judge their own, let people annoying.

But if you "surrender" to this, and offer your ears to accept all, and then while sulking, while thinking about how to fight back, it can be a mistake.

In the American drama "Battle of the Bones", Maya, the daughter of a father whose financial operations were involved in a terrible "Poison scheme", is used as an object of anger by people who have lost half of their life savings.

They accused her to her face, threatened her, and attacked her personally in phone messages ......

Maya was so disturbed that she hid in the toilet and cried bitterly. Seeing this, another hostess, Lucas, enlightened her, saying, "Ignore their words, bury your head in your work, don't go online, don't watch TV, don't make eye contact, and things will pass."

Sure enough, Maya did and took control of the situation, no longer troubled.

People on a hundred, all kinds of shapes and sizes, everywhere is the jungle, but also everywhere there is gossip; at the same time, people eat grains and cereals, there must be a thousand knots, no one, can use God's perspective, all the outside world, really maintain an objective evaluation and tolerance of the mind.

So, hello, or bad, their mouths, there are "articles" to do.

If we understand this point, we will not take it seriously, but cover our ears, do not listen and ignore, and do not resent the world to find an understanding and agreeable person.

Just like the Japanese writer Yataro Sumatra. When he presided over the work of revamping the magazine "Life Handbook", despite his dedication and efforts, he received a letter of protest from the public, which said that the content of the revamped edition was not as good as before.

In response, Yataro Sumatra, the most knowledgeable man in all of Japan about life, handled the situation by closing his ears and breathing deeply. Let the emotions return to a calm state.

As the saying goes: seeing is not seeing, hearing is not hearing.

The ear is lazy, is on its side of the small world, does not listen to gossip, ignores the broken words, lets the clouds roll, the mind is not disturbed, and the years are without worry.

Lazy mouth, not to spread gossip about right and wrong

I read a fable.

A lion walking on the other side of the river, the fox saw it from afar, and chewed on the crow: "Hey, you know what?

"Hey, you know what? The lion on the other side of the river looked tall and powerful, but, yesterday, when taking a nap, a small mosquito, so noisy, but also hands scratching, ruined the honor. I'm telling you, this kind of person is paper making, look great very useless, we have to stay away from it."

The fox chattered, the lion those embarrassing things, all shaken out.

While listening, the crow thought: "I have to stay away from you, you say to me today that the lion is not useful, tomorrow may be in front of the lion that I am all in black, not good-looking, and unlucky."

The crow thought it through and flew away with a beat of his wings.

In this world, ah, there are always some people, who like to rest their mouths on others, and then create strange remarks: the

Girls do not fall in love, TA will say: this is an old girl who can not get married.

boys like poetry and faraway places, TA will say no big ambition.

Career women with the strength to achieve financial freedom, TA will say: I'm afraid it's not that simple ......

This right and wrong gossip, all because of prejudice, and with malicious, so we as "spectators", shut our mouths, do not participate, do not believe, do not spread, is the right choice.

As the old saying goes, "Those who say right and wrong are right and wrong people."

Indeed, anyone who is attracted to gossip is also people who love to talk about right and wrong. As the saying goes, "good things don't happen, bad things spread a thousand miles" when the gossip about the rights and wrongs of others is known to all, all the "voices" of the people, are the "culprits", are hard to escape its responsibility.

Therefore, a person has cultivated people, the mouth is often very "lazy", not to say three, not to stir up trouble, not to mention the parents, Li family short.

Because TA knows, the world of red, the truth is how only the parties are clear, how the onlookers and then the eyes of gold, are watching the fire on the other side of the river, it is difficult to check the situation, it is difficult to distinguish the truth, therefore, do not presume to comment on the delusion, is the best response.

When we remain generous, not ponder the shortcomings of others, do and not pick on the shortcomings of others, it is only natural to understand many people and downplay many things.

As the saying goes: "Right and wrong every day, not to pass natural no."

Mouth "lazy" is in the world of human affairs in the jungle, not harshly blame people, not spread right and wrong, not talk about gossip, any fear of human speech without reproduction place.

The heart is lazy, not worrying about more

Many years ago, read a hilarious paragraph.

Like the team lost the game, the boy for a few days is sullen. And his girlfriend, because of his boyfriend's "cold", in the heart of the small theater, staged hundreds of episodes of television series.

When the two of them went shopping, the boyfriend was listless, she thought she had bought too many snacks to make him unhappy.

The company's main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.

When chatting at bedtime, her boyfriend had the first sentence without the next, and she thought, must have finished his sentence with his ex, and here I am without words ......

Finally, the girl in the diary of the whole analysis of two pages, the conclusion: he does not love me; and the boys, the diary only one sentence: TMD, XXX team lost again.

Paragraphs to read funny, but how is this not our shadow?

Colleagues do not greet us, we think it is TA's arrogance, but TA did not wear glasses and did not see who we are.

The supervisor does not discuss the program with us, we think it is because the creativity sucks, but it is because he just had vocal cord surgery, the doctor explained to talk less.

Friends do not go shopping with us, we thought TA to be distant, but are looking forward to a long time of drama starting, TA wants to quietly catch up ......

All such, are the performance of the active mind, worrying, and worrying.

I have to say, this kind of person, is very tired of living. In everything in the outside world, TA has to think deeply, about the complex, and even the negative to think. Then, because it can not afford the "psychological tsunami", the consequences of the fall of worry, and hurt, really should not.

There is a saying: "Happiness is not to think too much."

CAI La's outlook on life just fits with this saying. Once, X Taiyuan interviewed CAI LAN and asked many "profound" questions, such as: "You must have thought about the responsibility of intellectuals, right? You must have thought about the reason for reading sage books, right?" And so on.

But CAI La's answer is: "Don't think too much, you just think too much."

In the end, in CAI La's opinion, the meaning of life is not complicated at all, it is just to eat better, sleep better, and then have more fun.

Indeed, life in the world is to live a state of mind. As long as the heart is as wide as the sea, you can naturally smell the flowers and have a warm sun; but if you think too much, full of calculations, you can only create sores and live an unhappy life.

"There is nothing in the world, the mediocre people disturb themselves", the heart "lazy" a little, see what is what, hear what is what, do not think, not sensitive and suspicious, not unwarranted speculation, only the moment of every moment, as a beautiful experience to enjoy.

In this way, you will be able to look at the world and be unharmed inside.

For the rest of your life, be a "lazy" person

There is a poem written: "Spring has a hundred flowers and autumn has the moon, summer has a cool breeze and winter has snow, if no idle things are hanging in the heart, is a good time on earth."

Lazy ears do not listen to gossip and enjoy the "quiet" blessing.

Lazy mouth, not to spread gossip, enjoy the "mouth" blessing

The heart is lazy, do not think too much, enjoy the "heart wide" blessing.

Life in the world, not to provoke the dust, is happiness; no restraint, is also happiness.