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Why Some People Feel Like Home the Moment You Meet Them

Some souls feel like home because their energy matches yours, bringing instant safety, warmth, and effortless connection.

By Steve WaughPublished about a month ago 5 min read
Why Some People Feel Like Home the Moment You Meet Them

You come across one such person every now and then, and you feel like you belong home the moment you see them. The feeling of comfort, warmth and ease is almost immediate--it is as though they are known to your heart before they are known to your thought. This emotion does not occur very frequently, and once it occurs, it will be unforgettable. It is not just attraction, it is a feeling, a feeling of being put down and secure. Their presence is as common as breathing easy and bending your arm.

This is not grounded on past experiences but it is an unspoken relationship. Their physical power is relaxing and the company is easy to be with. You do not feel the necessity to impress or act. Rather, you do not need to be explained why you are understood. Such infrequent links bring to notice how much two souls may be conciliated. It seems like the emotional journeys that you have been on just naturally meet and come together the moment you get together and make you feel like you belong together and words can hardly explain it.

The reason why Vital Energy Alignment produces Immediate Connection.

Others have the feeling of being at home since you are on the same wavelength with them. This fits into the compatible emotional rhythms - the way that you talk, the way that you show care, the way that you perceive the world. You feel an emotional harmony even not knowing their history. The nervous system of yours relaxes around them. You are happier and more alive. Such a feeling of comfort is an image of an energized match that cannot be coerced or duplicated.

Energetic alignment implies that you have common emotional values. You both can react with sympathetic attitude, compassion or keen observation. Connection is easy when using this common language of emotions. It is unnecessary to decode intentions, or even doubt sincerity. You simply "get" each other. It is on this instant connection that one gains greater intimacy and understanding. When you find that you are in sync with the energy of another person, then the relationship is like entering a place that you inherently are part of.

When Emotional Safety manifests with Little Effort.

Emotional safety as a rule is something that progresses with time, however, in some individuals it turns out almost immediately. You are comfortable to be vulnerable, to be open, and share thoughts, to be yourself. Judgement and being misunderstood is not a concern. This stress-free emotional security is among the most obvious indications that one is at home. They do not make you feel any less about yourself, they make you feel much more secure. You feel held, not pressured.

This emotional security also enables true bonding to be created within a short time. You do not doubt their motives, but believe in their purity. You are perceived without the need to tell about every aspect of your feelings in detail. Their compassion is not practiced. Due to the lowered guard, the conversation flows freely and naturally. This kind of emotional openness builds a level of depth which may be years to build with another relationship. When this type of safety is provided with ease by any person, then it goes without saying why they are often referred to as home when you meet them.

In the case of Past Connections Affecting the Present Recognition.

In some cases a person is at home because he is similar to something in your past, not necessarily physically, but in the way you know it. They might be a bit of things that you once liked in a person who is important to you or they may be something that you have always desired since childhood. Patterns which your mind has not yet named Are recognized by your heart. This emotional familiarity gives a comfort that washes more like going back to a place that you had previously been to, despite the fact that the individual is completely new.

This awareness can also be based on common experiences or similar emotional experiences. You might have trod the same roads, have had the same teachings, have borne like burdens. These common emotional landscapes produce a virtual instant feeling of familiarity. You feel as though you are close together and you know that. Your emotional sense informs you that this relationship is secure, pleasant and stabilizing. It is this familiarity and recognition that is among the most compelling factors why certain individuals become at home at the first glance.

When Their Company Causes the Truest Form of You to Reveal Itself.

It has a special impact on a person who feels like home: they release the most real part of you. You do not feel like concealing your weakness, shaping your light or narrowing down what you think. One is not pressured to compete or impress. Rather, you are comfortable to be crass and truthful and genuine. This sincerity builds a strong emotional attachment since it is a means of attachment without being a pretense. The ability to express yourself freely is a precious gift, and it is not so easy.

They are also a growth incentive. You are motivated to be the best that you can be - not because they require it but because their energy favors it. They make it a place where it is easy to express oneself and the emotional depth would be embraced. Once one draws out this version of you, it is easy to understand why he or she feels like home. An actual relationship rather than acting, is reassuring, stable and emotionally freeing.

Final Thoughts

There are those people who are considered home since their vitality matches yours, their presence gives you safety, and their spirit is similar to your emotional truth. They bring in familiarity without the need to explain and bring comfort without trying. Such few positive linkages get you to thinking that love and belonging is not necessarily constructed--it is sometimes identified at a glance. The reason to feel that you are at home as soon as you see a person is because your heart feels that there is a chance of a connection that grounds and changes you. These relations are fateful, comforting, and very much real- the thought of that some ties are experienced to a great extent even before they are comprehended.

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About the Creator

Steve Waugh

I'm Steve Waugh, a California-based dating blogger with over a decade of experience helping singles navigate the modern dating landscape.

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