Why Men Prefer to Chase Me Now That I’m Married - Anita Joseph

Marriage is the ultimate union of two people. It is a warning sign to other people outside of the union that these two people are now off the market and should be left alone sexually and romantically.

But what happens when people do not want to see the warning sign? When they set their sights on someone in the marriage and still want to have them sexually or romantically despite the wedding ring? Why would anybody even want to this?

This is the question that beloved Nigerian actress Anita Joseph who got married to her husband Fisayo Olagunju aka MC Fish in 2020 was asked. Anita despite being married still gets hit on by a number of men. When asked about it, Anita got very honest about her experiences in the past and what even have told her about it. Here's what Anita said.

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Speaking on if and why men still chase after her despite her being married, Anita Joseph said to the Saturday Sun:

Of course, men still chase me despite my wedding ring. They do so because I am a beauty. Well, men can’t stop making passes at you as a married woman, but it depends on you to put them in their places, and respect yourself. Don’t lead them on. These men don’t care about wedding rings. In fact, one told me that seeing my wedding ring makes it better for him because it will be only my husband and himself, because I don’t trust these girls outside, and I’m like ‘huh, you say?’ Recently, I had one embarrassing encounter where this guy chased me around the mall, saying I must bless him with a peck because he loves watching my movies. It wasn’t funny at all.

Then Anita Joseph, who is a curvy actress, was also asked how she feels about people constantly telling her that her body was cosmetically enhanced. She said about the surgery accusations:

I don’t blame Nigerians for thinking that way, but it hurts those of us that have natural bodies to see people assuming you had surgery. It is annoying when you pass by people and they start arguing whether you did surgery or not. They should know the difference between natural and plastic; we are not the same. I have always been curvy, the same thing with my sisters too. My bum is not even close to that of my mum’s. I own a waist trainer brand called ‘hourglassfashionworld’, and I must tell you that waist cinchers work but not that fast. Cinchers won’t work in just a week. It’s a gradual process with a lot of dieting and exercises.

Anita Joseph celebrated two years of marriage to her husband this year and both are still going strong. I have never and still don't understand why people set their eyes on married people? Do you? How do you feel about people chasing after married people? I'd love to know your thoughts by leaving a comment on my Jide Okonjo Facebook post.

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